sadness

I lost our baby last Tuesday. I wasn't as far along as they originally thought, so that is good, at least the baby didn't feel the pain I did....and still do feel. No one can tell me why. I need to know why. just wanted to stop by here and let you guys know. tracie

my condolences go out to you and your family... Keep your head up and keep on trying!! Nancy

There is no worse feeling than what your going thru. We lost our first and one of two twins. There is no comforting words that can truely comfort you and although people will try, it is not mere words that help. Time will help some. But you will always love it as much as any child you do have. I know I do. The doctor told us that these things happen maybe not for an understandable reason, but most often becuase it was what needed to happen to cause the least suffering to the child and us as parents. I guess I can say that might have helped me the most. God bless you and your husband right now. I will keep you in our prayers.

Dear Tracie: I am so sorry for your loss. I know how painful it is to lose a much wanted pregnancy, no matter how early it was. Many times people just shrug it off, when it happens early in a pregnancy, but it is still a signifcant loss to you and your husband. It is normal to grieve the baby, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will be in my thoughts. May you be bleesed again, with another new life!!!! DeeAnn R

I am so sorry! (((((((((HUGS)))))))) I was worried about ya when you weren't on the boards and the last thing you had posted was that you hadn't heard the heartbeat! I have know words of wisdom (seldom do) but I wanted you to know I will be saying a little prayer for you! A lot of times there won't be a reason, even tho it would be so much more comforting if there were one. I am sure it is nothing you did tho! I hope you find some comfort and are blessed again! Take Care and let me know if there is anything you need! Take Care Jesi

Hi I'm never good on this part, on what to say or what not to say. So, I'll do my best. I'm so sorry to hear about your baby. You and your family are in my prayers. Take Care Love Lisa Young

Hello Tracie, im so sorry I cant imagine what your going through things will get better in time huggs to you Laurie

Tracie, I have been wondering how you have been doing. You have not posted for awhile and I have been curious how things were progressing. I am so sorry for your loss. I can totally relate to what you are going through as my husband and I went through 2 miscarriages last year and finally was able to sustain this pregnancy. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. If you want to email me please feel free to do so. I know what you mean about finding out why. My husband and I went through lots of tests after the second miscarriage last year and really didn't get any resolution to why they were happening. So my OB-who is a high risk OB- said that when I get pregnant again that he will put me progesterone inserts for the first 3 months and have me take a baby aspirin daily until 2 weeks before delivery. Well that must have worked. The only thing with doing it this way is that you know that you are pregnant right away so you are able to get on the medication ASAP. Some women have low progesterone and that is the hormone that helps sustain the pregnancy and need that little extra level in their blood. That might be something that you will want to address with your Dr. Please feel free to contact me and we can chat more if you want as I do know what you are going through. Stephanie

Understand what you are feeling. I miscarried twins & had full term stillborn daughter. No reason for the loss of any of them. Keeping you & your family in my thoughts & prayers. Hugs Carolyn

I am so very sorry for your loss, Tracie... ~~Sherry