Hello everyone its been awhile

Hello,its been forever since I posted on here I been kind of down lately I been at the same weight for 2 months now I been walking everyday and drinking water. I been down to because I think my husband is in secere cause i like my meetings and he gets jeoulous when i go them I have met so many friends on here thanks to you guys I keep going. its just weriod because I would think my husband would be happy and be there he wasnt like this in the beginning it just started a couple of months ago. but i'm dealing with it. and i'm happy for myself that my weight is gone i'm so much healthier then I was. i just wanted to update I hope everyone has a good week. Laurie

Laurie, about dang time you post woman.....lol had to get yeah...you are always responding to post and you are very supportive to us ok well me esp with the break up with robert....i am here for you and i think you look awesome girl and when we went out i think all the guys thought you looked awesome also.......lol keep your chin up woman...........talk to you later i am here for you.....lynda

Hello Lynda, I know its been awhile,lol thanks for your support and yes you will always know i'm here for you. take care laurie

The groups are important!!! Did you ever come back to Dubuque? I feel bad for you and hubby, hard situation, just reassure him everyday that you love him.....he is older than you.....he is probably afraid his hot YOUNGER chick is gonna run off......lol!!!! Bring him to the next support group meeting, he will be bored out of his mind and he will never wanna come again......lol!! And then too, he can see we are a decent bunch of gals.....remind him we are all happily married and such!! My hubby is getting a little insecure.....when we got together I was heavy....have always been heavy....but he wasn't, over the years he has picked up my bad habits and has gained a bit of weight......he hates himself now, and realizes how hard it is to lose weight.....sometimes he gets a little jealous if I dress up more or something to go somewhere.....I think it is a man thing and a major change thing.....we have to do our part to make our men feel okay......even tho it is a pain.....lol!!! Take Care Jesi

Hello Jesi, no I havent made it back yet but I will soon its been rough but trying to do what I can. he wont come to a meeting,lol i cant really get him to go anywhere. I just think hes not use to me having all kinds of friends but oh well I need them. but I will be at the next meeting, cant wait to see everyone. I will email you soon Laurie

Hi Laurie, Cheer up my dear, it will happen! Now I believe we need to live closer so you could teach me to line dance! Back in the old days I went dancing 6 nights a week! Of course that was before kids, although I was still dancing at 9 months along with the twins. Nothing kept me down in those days! Even bowled up until 2 nights before they were born & was out again 2 weeks after they were born. Was younger then! I think men do have an insecure problem, but so do women. All of the sudden you are melting away in front of their eyes & getting more attention than you have before. Keep re-assuring him, keep telling you are doing this to be healthier so you can be around longer to love him up! Talk to you later. Carolyn

Hello Carolyn, I wish you all did live closer, yea my friend taught me to line dance she use to teach line dance classes. I go once a week at this place called chaps saloon its fun. I have tried talking him in to going to are meetings but he wont but i still keep trying. I know he likes the new me its that hes worryed someone going to take me away and he has a hard time showing affection towards me I love him with all my heart he was here for me when I was big and thats what makes me adore him more. sometime I need to drive up that way like I told Lynda, we will all have to get together. well have a good day tsake care Laurie