Bad news from Mayo

Mom is already back from Mayo. They could not help her. She is at stage 4 cancer right now, with a new tumor on her shoulder (clavicle). I am absolutely devastated and have no idea how to deal. It is so unfair that this great woman has to go through this horrible disease. She is 53 years old and has been fighting breast cancer off and on for the better part of 7 years. She is going to be getting chemo in Iowa City on Friday, they are going to keep fighting it and hopefully stave it off until they find a cure. I finally heard back from my insurance and on a great note, they approved my tummy tuck! It is hard to be excited about it when I am so worried about my mother though. I have to wait until my surgeon receives the letter from the insurance before I can set up a surgery date, but I am hoping to get it done in the beginning of November. I may wait until spring if my mom takes a turn for the worse. I hope I didn't get anyone too down in the dumps, I appreciate all of the emails and well-wishes. It really does help make me feel better. Julie

Oh Julie- I'm so sorry to hear that. There are few words that can provide adequate comfort. My mother-in-law died of pancreatic cancer several years ago, just when we were starting to get close. Gone in 30 days from diagnosis to death. Cherish the time you have with your mother- respect her wishes, spend as much time with her as you can...help her indulge in her whims and you will have no regrets.

Julie, So sorry to hear about your Mom fight with cancer. I know words cannot express what I feel for you at this time of not knowing . All I can say is enjoying the rest of the time you have with her , and from the sound of it you are a very caring daugther I'll keep you and your Mom my in prayers and thoughts .....Hugs....Sheila

Oh Julie, I am so very sorry. That must be so very hard, I can only imagine. You obviously have a great deal of support and strength to offer your mom and I am certain she is so appreciative for that. You and your mom will remain in my prayers~

Julie , I am so sorry to hear about your mom.. I know how hard it is.. I also know words dont really help ease the pain but hey I gotta try.. My mom has chemo tomorrow in Iowa City too... good ole chemoland... ugh!! I hope they do everything they can to give her and you some hope and to keep her comfortable. Spend all the time you can with her good and bad.. that is one thing you will never regret. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ::::::::::: BIG HUGS ::::::::::::: Dawn B

I pray God is with you and your family as you try to cope with this disease! You've helped me more than you know! God Bless, Deb Paul