How did YOU choose RNY or Band?
I never even considered lapband, mainly because my father had RNY in December of 2003 and has been very successful and at the time of my initial consult with Dr. Eibes, I don't think they were doing lapband quite yet, just getting ready for it. I also have a friend whose mother (who I've never met) had lapband. She said her mom was totally unhappy with it and then got RNY. Now I don't know the reasons or anything because this was before I knew anything about lapband and I had already made my decision so I didn't ask questions. It was probably a personal preference, like maybe she needed the sugar & fat dumping reactions, who knows?
Now having done the RNY and looking back and thinking "what if?" Would I change my decision? Absolutely not! My reasons: I like the fact that I might possibly dump on too much sugar - I haven't really tested the waters yet but the fear of getting sick is enough for me. Does that mean I have absolutely no sugar? Nope. It's just that now, a little bit will satisfy me. For example, I might snatch a hershey's kiss from my co-workers desk....yummy, that was good and I don't need any more. Before, I would empty the whole jar in a day or 2 and then go buy her more! My mindset so far has been that I can have anything in moderation. Others are very strict and say no "bad" foods, very little carbs unless they're whole grain, etc. Those people are the ones who can't eat just one and be ok, that's what works for them. I'm hoping my way of thinking will continue - if it doesn't I may have to make some adjustments. A couple other reasons I'm glad I had RNY rather than lapband is that I don't think I'd be too excited about having to go in for fills so often. Again this is just personal preference. I don't want you or anyone to think that I'm bashing lapband because it might just be what works for you. All of it is about personal preference. I would just say that if you have ANY doubt in your mind that you might be a sugar/carb addict and need the fear of dumping with the RNY then think really hard about it. Hope this helps and if you have any questions or need advice, please don't be afraid to ask or PM me. Best of luck in your decision! Carrie
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