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I'm new to this forum, having just moved from Louisiana to the Big Island less than a month ago. I had a RNY on October 27, 2008, and have lost 104 lbs. I'm thrilled with my new body for the most part, but have been experiencing lack of motivation to lose the last 20 lbs because a) my size 8 pants are too big, so why keep trying to lose more? b) I'm only 5 ft tall and now that I'm thinner, I feel like I must look like a middle-aged child (I'm 57); and c) although my sagging skin will probably snap back to some extent, it's so discouraging to not be able to wear short sleeves or shorts in this climate because my legs and upper arms are so unattractive.
What I'm most worried about is that I will start to regain the weight. I'm sticking to my plan for the most part, but with the stress of moving and family problems, I've eaten a small bag of Cheetos here and a box of low sugar cookies there.
I'm also wondering whether I can attend the Hilo support group meetings even though I had my surgery elsewhere?
Thanks,
Marcy
In August I lost a really good friend that ive known for over 20 years, he was a brother to me an angel among us. He went into to have RNY and had some complications and passed away. I miss him and love him very very much. But even with his lost i still would recommend the surgery to anyone.
My goal, is to drop another 22 pounds, but let me say i feel the best ive felt in years, i can walk now without sore knees and i can breath after going up a flight of stairs. And it feels good when people notice the change. To everyone on here keep up the good work and be safe out there.
2 months have flown by already!
Gosh where to start...first of all life is excellent. I've lost a total of 41 inches and approximately 35.5 lbs. Something I would probably never have the chance to do...if not for my tool! I still struggle with my demons..."FOOD", but things are coming along perfectly fine. I found new foods to love that are healthier then all those sugar and sweets I used to love. I find that after a nice brisk walk, I have more energy and i'm not tired all the time!
I love hearing my children say, "Mommy you lost so much weight" or my husband telling me how beautiful I am. Don't get me wrong. They loved me and thought I was beautiful before the surgery, but now to hear it from them brings tears to my eyes! I also think it's cute when co-workers tell me, "I'm melting away!" or "I didn't even know that was you!"
My sister is doing great as well...we both keep on top of eachother. I swear we talk almost everyday to see what we've eaten or tried. How we're feeling, etc. It's just so much easier knowing we share the same experience...well almost all the same!
Life is a journey and this ride i'm on is nowhere near the end...
I have to work tomorrow so I won't be able to see him. Darn, again! Guess we'll have to wait until October when he comes back.
Thank you for your prompt response!
Oh! And I vote for Emotional Eating/Boredom Eating and Stress Reduction Tips to start with. Is there such a thing as sabotaging yourself because you don't want the journey to end??? I'm having a heck of a time focusing on the last 10-20 pounds because I am so comfortable and pleased with myself. I maintain very easily. If I lose all I should, then, there won't be anything left to do!
Glad you're excited!
It seems that the Maui support group is cancelled tonight. However, it looks like Dr. Cirangle will seeing patients there tomorrow. You may want to call the office just to make sure though.
Have a great day!
By the way... is Dr. C on Maui tonight? I had my calendar marked, but usually see a post regarding his arrival.
Mahalo!!
My name is Tara and I am a Licensed Psychotherapist and Life Coach specializing in bariatric surgery and weight loss. Beginning next week, I will be starting a "Talk with Tara" series that will include helpful tips and information for those considering weight loss surgery and those who have already undergone a surgical procedure.
However, I'd love to hear from you first! Please feel free to respond to this post and share any topic ideas that you'd be interested in. For example: · Maintaining motivation · Stress reduction tips · Emotional eating strategies · Relationships & WLS I look forward to hearing from you and joining you along your weight loss journey! Tara Griffith, MA, MFT The Surgical Weight Loss Center of Hawaii WLS Support Services
According to the overseas screening info that I have read, Kauai, Japan and Guam has very strict requirements. It states that you will automatically be disqualified from being able to go if youhave had RNY or a Morbidly Obese related complication in the last 3 years. I will only be 2 1/2 years out when we move. I am hoping to have some more info today.
I hope it does not stop us from going. We are very excited about it! Hope all is well!
Jen
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