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on 12/1/09 12:08 am - Irvine, CA
Topic: Mega Holiday Perks!


Mega Holiday Perks!

Each month we work with generous sponsors to bring 3 lucky OH newsletter subscribers a perk giveaway.  A BIG thank you to all of our 2009 sponsors! Here is what was a part of our past perks:  Celebrate Vitamins, Bariatric Advantage Vitamins, Chef Dave’s Cookbook, achievONE®, CLICK Espresso Protein Drink, Dr. Garth Davis’ Book, Chike, and Just The Cheese.

But we’re not done yet…To finish the year out, OH went holiday shopping!

For December, we have a special MEGA holiday perk line-up for OH Newsletter subscribers. 

So far we have…

1 - Nintendo Wii Game Console + Wii Fit board & Game

3 - 10mp Kodak Easy Share Digital Cameras

2 - Apple iPod Nanos

2 - Tanita Scales PLUS Body Fat and Body Water Monitor

3 - MIO Heart Rate Monitor Watches

5 - Emsa Perfect Measuring Beakers


To be eligible for the holiday perks giveaway please make sure you are subscribed to the OH newsletter by December 9th. Winners will be selected at random from the OH newsletter subscribers list. Winners will be announced in the December issue.


Don’t forget to spread the holiday cheer and let others know!  
Happy Holidays

Member Services
on 11/24/09 6:19 am - Irvine, CA
Topic: Health Tracker Updates In Time For The Holidays - Profile Integration and Workouts

Today we released a couple of major updates to Health Tracker just in time for the holidays (as we continue on the path to Health Tracker world domination :). These updates include, 1) Profile display of Health Tracker - If you choose to, you are now able to display/share your Health Tracker within your personal profile. This can be kept completely private, it can be shared with only your friends or with the entire ObesityHelp community. 2) My Workouts - You are now able to build and store custom workouts that can be used over and over again. My Workouts will allow you to log multiple exercise/activity items at one time so you don't have to search for individual exercises each time you want to log your activity or exercise session.

Profile Display of Health Tracker .

The profile display of Health Tracker includes Body, Food Log, Exercise Log and the Macronutrient Report. As mentioned above, this can be kept entirely private or you can choose to share your Health Tracker information with friends, family, your bariatric surgeon or other clinicians.

In order to see the profile view of Health Tracker, when viewing your profile or another member's profile, look for the Health Tracker link to the right of the avatar. If there is no Health Tracker link, the profile view of Health Tracker has been set to private.


 

The privacy settings for Health Tracker can be found in the "Settings" section of My OH. To access your Health Tracker setting click My OH at the top of any page on ObesityHelp, select "Settings" on the left, click the Health Tracker tab and choose the "Sharing" option. Or, just click here to access your Health Tracker Sharing options :)

Workouts

My Workouts makes it quick and easy to log routine exercise and activity. For those who perform similar exercises on a regular basis, with My Workouts you can create a workout consisting of a series of exercises you often perform and instead logging each exercise indivivudally, My Workouts allows to log a single item (a workout) that contains all of the exericses you have performed. Build it once and log it any number of times.

Under My Workouts you will see a list of workouts that you have created and saved. You can log workouts directly from My Workouts by selecting "I did this", choose the day and click "Save"

You can also search for workouts you have created directly from your Exercise Log.

Create your first workout now!

One other addition

For your convenience, in this release we have also made some changes to the account deactivation process. In case you ever have the need to deactivate your ObesityHelp account, you can access this function by clicking My OH at the top of any page on ObesityHelp, select "Settings" on the left, and under the "General" tab select "Manage". Instructions for deactivating your account can be found there.

Have a great Thanksgiving and look for more updates soon!

If you have any questions, comments or concerns about this release, please post them in this thread on the Main Message Board.

Tara Griffith, MFT
on 11/23/09 5:13 am - San Francisco, CA
Topic: Talk with Tara, MFT

Tips For Surviving the Holiday Season!


PLAN ON NOT CUTTING BACK AFTER THE NEW YEAR: Anticipation of dieting can set you up for binge-type eating over the holidays.  Therefore, manage the holiday season one day at a time. If you splurge a bit at a holiday party, kick up your exercise and immediately return to your healthy habits the next day.

BE PREPARED FOR FOOD PUSHERS:  How many times do you hear these comments during the holidays?

·         "That's ALL you're going to have? I worked so hard on that dish!"
·         "You better eat this now, because it won't be here for another year."
·         "Have more, I insist."
·         "Oh nonsense! You're allowed to eat a lot today!"

Reflect on past holiday experiences and evaluate what lies ahead for you this year.  Be prepared for food pushers and practice how you will respond to them.  Feel free to respond to this post and share with others what responses have worked for you in the past.

ANTICIPATE THE FOOD: Reflect on past holiday foods that are typically available to you within your social circle. Identify your food triggers and pre-determine what you WILL and WON'T eat.  Have a plan and determine beforehand what you will do to control that trigger. 

EAT HEALTHY BEFORE YOU GO: Never go to a holiday party hungry! This is self-sabotage in the worst way. Consume a healthy snack before you go or take along your own WLS-friendly treats or drinks.

DON’T LOSE TRACK: Because the holidays involve a lot of parties, conversation, and occasional drinking, it can be very easy to get distracted by the mood and "forget" what you have consumed. Make sure to do your socializing away from the bar or buffet table.  Place all of the food you wish to consume on a plate to avoid mindless grazing.

MAKE NEW TRADITIONS:  All too often, the emphasis during the holidays is on the food rather than spending time with those we love.  Yes, many people have food traditions that make the holidays special, but this is usually only a dish or two.   So be social and focus on those around you instead of on your plate.  Share your favorite holiday memory, learn something new about someone, organize a family game, or get active and dance to festive music!

GIVE THANKS! Instead of mourning the loss of your favorite holiday treats, focus on the fact that you're feeling so much healthier, your clothes are getting baggier, and you're doing things that you would have never dreamed of doing this time last year.   

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! I would love to hear what YOU are thankful for, so please feel free to share! 


Tara Griffith, MA, MFT
Laparoscopic Associates of San Francisco
WLS Support Services

*DISCLAIMER* The information provided within this forum is intended for GENERAL EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.  Answers, comments, and opinions provided are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, or other professional advice.  As this is an open forum on the Internet, your questions and answers will be seen by others. It is possible that an unqualified individual may post a reply to questions. Always seek the advice of your personal physician or other qualified health provider for any questions you may have regarding any specific medical condition or mental health issue.   Information provided in this forum DOES NOT constitute a therapist-patient relationship between you and Tara Griffith, MFT.      
Nahealani
on 11/19/09 1:39 am - vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Big Medicine Tonight
OMG you will find out that it is not as hard as the band.  Good luck to you.  Now you will have to wait another 2 years for a baby.  O well it will be worth the wait!!!

 5'4": Surgery 240/Current 135/Goal 140 = 105 lbs lost!!!  BMI 22.5 I'm Normal  

6 Years Later highest 198 / Current 176 / Goal 140
Hit Goal on 5/14/09 8 months out! 
  Join us on the Lightweights Board!

gigi2897
on 11/18/09 4:54 am - Deer Park, TX
Topic: RE: Big Medicine Tonight
Thanks I miss you too!!  I am having a revision from lapband to RNY because my body has rejected the band port.  I have lost about 120 pounds so I consider myself successful with the band but don't want to take it out and have nothing to help me out so the doctor decided to do the bypass.  I am pretty excited just nervous.  In February I started having some pain so they figured it was my gall bladder so they removed it..  The pain didn't go away so he did a port revision and that didn't help.  We have been fighting the insurance company for all this time and I just gor my approval at the end of October.  The doctor decided that for some reason the port was causeing inflamation and pain so it needed to come out.  Hopefully all will be fine and this will help with the pain.  Hope all is well.  You look great!!


Nahealani
on 11/18/09 4:46 am - vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Big Medicine Tonight
I am happy to see you post.  You are having a revision?  What are you planning to do?  What happened?  Whatever the case is I know that you would only do what is best for you.  Good luck!! I miss you friend.  Since you left I think I only went to 2 more meetings.  Its not the same without you.

 5'4": Surgery 240/Current 135/Goal 140 = 105 lbs lost!!!  BMI 22.5 I'm Normal  

6 Years Later highest 198 / Current 176 / Goal 140
Hit Goal on 5/14/09 8 months out! 
  Join us on the Lightweights Board!

gigi2897
on 11/18/09 1:55 am - Deer Park, TX
Topic: Big Medicine Tonight
Hi Friends!! I have a huge favor to ask of you tonight!! Tonight is the Update show for the television show Big Medicine. This is a show telling the stories of patients having weight loss surgeries. Tonights episode is an update on some of the patients from past seasons. If we can get 1 million viewers tonight they will do a third season. The doctor on the show is my doctor here in houston. Dr. Garth Davis. He is the best. The show airs tonight on Discovery health at 8:00 Central time. Not sure what that is in other time zones but please if you can tune in to watch or if you won't be home just leave your television on tuned to that station. The name on the cable guide just says Obesity! Thanks for your support!  Please watch!! My revision surgery is scheduled for December 2nd at 8:00 in the morning!! I am excited but nervous!!!


pinkshrimp
on 11/16/09 2:44 pm - HI
Topic: RE: One year later (long)
Congrats Ole!!
You have come such a long way..... U r truly an inspiration to me.  I'm so happy for you and the obstacles you have overcome.  I admire how you take on your struggles and find a way to overcome them.  I hope to one day say I have done the same.
The farther out I get the harder I find it is to stay away from old habits.  I'm struggling to lose these last 20 lbs and your post gives me the drive I need to get back on track.  Thank you!
Keep up the great work!!!
~viki


Highest/Surgery Day/Current/Goal
315 300 /  159.8/ 160

brinn71
on 11/15/09 1:48 am - HI
Topic: One year later (long)
 Wow, I can't believe it has been a year since surgery. It was one year ago on Friday that I was in California having surgery so this is a couple of days late but life has been busy lately and Friday I went to a military ball. I posted a current picture on my profile but my browser settings will not allow me to copy it into this post. So a quick run down of the changes that have happened in the past year.

11.13.08 Surgery weight 324 lbs 
11.13.09 Current weight 172 lbs currently trying to maintain but still losing.
11.13.08 Size 32 tops/size 28 pants
11.13.09 Size 14 tops/size 10 pants
11.13.08 Bra size 48F
11.13.09 Bra size 34G
11.13.08 Ring size 13
11.13.09 Ring size 9
11.13.08 Pre-diabetic, hard to control high blood pressure, deteriorating ankle, knee, and hip joints and chronic pain affecting my daily life.
11.13.09 Blood sugar steady and normal, blood pressure normal, no more pain in the ankle, knee, and hip joints on a daily basis, activity is easier and fun.

Those are just some of the changes there have been so many!
Now I want to say that for me the hardest part of this last year has been the mental and emotional part. The head hunger, the self sabotage, and the realization that there were definite issues that I needed to come to terms with in order to be successful. I understand that I used my weight as an excuse and barrier to keep people from getting close to me. Part of this past year has been spent working on my issues and learning new coping behaviors to replace eating. I have been extremely fortunate that I have had the support of my friends and family to help me through this. Then there is the change in how other people view you and treat you. Some people will be threatened by the change in you and may react negatively or may distance themselves from you. I have had to tell myself to let them go because it is about them not me. It is sad to lose friends or have co-workers who can't or won't be happy for you but I can't control their behavior only my own. People may find you more attractive and act upon it. This was hard for me, it made me very uncomfortable and still does. I am learning to be gracious, accept the compliments, and set boundaries. 
All in all it has been an eventful year and I still find it hard to believe how much things have changed in a year. I am not done and the changes will keep coming. I know I still have a long way to go and then there is the whole plastic surgery option to consider. Yes I have excess skin but I expected it and it's not as bad as I thought it would be.

Best of luck to everyone and I hope you are all doing well. Please feel free to ask me any questions if you have them and I will do my best to answer.

Ole

Tara Griffith, MFT
on 11/11/09 3:51 am, edited 11/11/09 3:53 am - San Francisco, CA
Topic: Talk with Tara, MFT


Overcoming Self-Sabotage Behavior

Over the last few posts, we have learned that self-sabotage behavior is not a result of a lack of desire, intelligence, skills, or willpower.  Instead, it is a result of subconscious, irrational beliefs and fears that were likely developed in our youth.  To conclude this series, we will take a look at some ways you can begin to overcome self-sabotage:

WATCH.  The major factor in eliminating self-sabotage behavior is being aware of it.  Pay close attention to your behavior.  When, where, and with whom do these negative behaviors seem to surface?  

LISTEN. Listen to your internal dialogue and identify the negative messages you are telling yourself.  Decide if the belief is really true or the result of a past negative experience or message that you've unconsciously absorbed.  Take time to meditate, journal, and/or reflect during this step.

DO. The final step of eliminating a self-defeating behavior is to start re-programming your belief system by taking action. 

 

·         AFFIRM, AFFIRM, AFFIRM!!!  Affirmations may sound silly, but they're actually an excellent way to undo one’s negative internal beliefs.  How?  Simply find three good things about yourself each day.  Make a list and carry this list with you everywhere you go.  Regularly repeat the affirmations to yourself.  Add to the list constantly without erasing your past affirmations.
 

·         Face challenges. Learning to face challenges rather than avoid them will increase your self-confidence over time.  Make a point of showing up in situations when you would normally back out.  Follow through with things you would have let go before.  Self-sabotaging beliefs that you aren’t smart enough, strong enough, courageous enough, or capable enough will begin to lose power.
 

·         Take baby steps towards your goal.  Set small, doable, tasks each day.  Every little piece of a task that you successfully complete will reinforce your feelings of competency and capability that you can succeed at the next task.
 

·         Enlist friends, family, professionals, and/or spiritual allies to help you sustain your goals and reinforce your new, POSITIVE way of thinking.  
 

·         Be patient and persistent. Remember, to aim for progress, not perfection. 


Tara Griffith, MA, MFT
Laparoscopic Associates of San Francisco
WLS Support Services

*DISCLAIMER* The information provided within this forum is intended for GENERAL EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.  Answers, comments, and opinions provided are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, or other professional advice.   As this is an open forum on the Internet, your questions and answers will be seen by others. It is possible that an unqualified individual may post a reply to questions. Always seek the advice of your personal physician or other qualified health provider for any questions you may have regarding any specific medical condition or mental health issue.  Information provided in this forum DOES NOT constitute a therapist-patient relationship between you and Tara Griffith, MFT.

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