Congratulations on your surgery date Jen!  Wishing you all the best and keep us posted on your progress!

Aloha,
Nicole

OMG, it has been a very long journey, and i haven't even had my surgery yet. All the people i met when i first came on this site, are all past their 1 yr or longer surgiversaries...congrats to all!!! i was supposed to have mine back in the end of 2008, but due to some unforeseen cir****tances, it was not to be, and every time i came close...NOPE! well, FINALLY, my time has come...YAY!!!!!!!!!!
my surgery is set for tuesday march 23rd and i am so freakin excited. everybody's asking me, are you nervous, are you nervous? no, i am not. maybe the day OF, but im all good. just went to oahu this past thurs. for my pre-op w/ dr. fowler and went to castle for whatever prepping had to be done.

just wanted to touch base and to send a shout out to those i used to talk to when first coming on this site. ASIA, HIGURL, MAKENA, etc. you all look AMAZING!!!! and i can only hope to be as successful as you guys...



jen


P.S. hope to see you all on the losers bench soon

Hi Janice,

I live in Hawaii but moved here from Florida and have been to Destin, FL.  Destin used to be my most favorite beach until I moved to Hawaii.  I guess for FL, it's my favorite.  If I had to choose, I'd come to Hawaii over FL, hands down.  The best island to visit, in my opinion and I'm assuming you have children since you said "family vacation", is Oahu.  This is the island I live on, it has lots of things for kids to do, history with Pearl Harbor, the palaces for the history of the Hawaiian royalty, and may be a little less expensive than the other islands.  My favorite resort is the Hilton Hawaiian Village but can be pricey.  Anyway, I hope that helps.  If Hawaii is too much of a bite out of your wallet, Destin, is a very nice alternative.

Lisa

ADDICTION TRANSFER

Food addiction is often a topic of debate, but is viewed by many scientists as a disorder as real as a drug or alcohol addiction. Like other addictions, food addiction can be triggered by depression, an individual’s desire to fill some type of emotional void, or the need to have control over his or her life.  A new wave of research also suggests that there are also biochemical causes of compulsive eating.

If someone suffers from a food addition and undergoes bariatric surgery, the addictive behavior can remain if the underlying issues that led to the original addiction are not addressed.  However, in some cases, the addiction can manifest itself in another form such as:

·         Alcoholism
·         Compulsive shopping
·         Drug dependency
·         Excessive gambling
·         Increased or uncharacteristic promiscuity

Swapping one compulsive or addictive act (such as overeating) with another is known as addiction transfer. Conservative estimates state that 5 percent of bariatric surgery patients experience an addiction transfer, replacing their dependence on food with another compulsive behavior.

Many times, patients who experience addition transfer don’t realize it at first. What might have started as a “reward" for losing weight, or just a new pastime, can turn into a habit for people who have not addressed the underlying problems that triggered their original food addiction. It is important to stress that bariatric surgery does NOT cause addiction. 

If you feel that you are struggling with an untreated food addiction or have transferred your addiction to another substance or behavior, don’t wait to seek help. Gain the support of a psychologist, addiction specialist, or a support group. Some addiction support groups include:

·         Food Addicts Anonymous (F.A.A.)
·         Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous (F.A.)
·         Overeaters Anonymous (O.A.)
·         Alcoholics Anonymous (A.A.)
·         Debtors Anonymous (D.A.)
·         Gamblers Anonymous (G.A.)
·         Narcotics Anonymous (N.A.)
·         Sex Addicts Anonymous (S.A.A.)


Tara Griffith, MA, MFT
WLS Support Services
Laparoscopic Associates of San Francisco

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hehe Thanks for all the responses!!  I know I was suggested to the boards and well...HAWAII NO KA OI!!!   At least I'm happy to be from here and hoping to get on that 'loser' bench with everyone else one day XD^^