Valentine's Day???
Rachel,
perhaps a mans point of view might be helpful.
a nice backrub can be a great way to show your feelings..
perhaps cooking his favorite dinner and a nice bottle of champagne.
Anything that basically panders to his ego and makes him feel like your personal sex god would be nice. any appreciation you show him will be returned to you tenfold. Men want to feel that their partner is happy and pleased, as we perceive it as a reflection on us and how good we are as a partner. make him feel that he has totally made you happy and he will be overwhelmed with the ego boost to his morale.
hope this helps a little bit....I've read "men are from mars, women are from venus" and these few little pointers are the greatest things I have ever learned about the way men and women communicate.
Have fun!
Paul McConnell