Prayers please

A co-worker of mine that was inspired by my results and decided to have the surgery died last night from complications. He approached me the day I come back to work back in March and was working on his surgery ever sence. He had his done on December 30th and passed last night. Please keep his family in your thougths and prayers. Say a few for me as well. I'm feeling a bit guilty for saying anything about it.

Oh Marty! I am soooo sorry to hear about your co-worker. I will keep his family and YOU in my prayers. But please, do not feel guilty. Having surgery (any surgery) you always take a risk. He knew of the chances just like the rest of us do. It was ulitamately his decision and God's will. We can't always understand God's plans for us. We just have to accept it and move forward. I know for me, if I had to do it all over again and knowing the risk, I would do it again in a heartbeat. Hugs! Kimberly

Marty I am so sorry for your lost. I too believe that when it is your time to go home to our Lord your going to go. Do you know what kind of complications he had? Was he a high risk? Can you tell us anymore info. And please don't feel quilty. Cheri

I am so sorry my friend..... My prayers are with his family, and also with you. Please do not feel guilty at all... It was a decision that he made. We all know the risk going in. I am just so sorry

Marty, I'm really really soryy for what happened to your co-worker and how it must've affected you, and also for his family as they are probably devistated. But like people before me said: it's absolutely not your fault by any means. I hope you and his family stays strong. I'm not a religious person, but I certainly will be thinking of all of you. Hugs, Rita

The word I got last night at work was it was a heart attack and not complications as I was told when I made the post.

Hi, Marty...big HUGS to you! I am sure that your colleague knew all of the dangers going into it. Don't feel guilty, Sweet Friend! I will be lifting his family in prayer, and you too! Hugs, Becky

Marty~~~I am so sorry to hear about your co-worker. I will keep his family in my prayers. You have nothing to feel guilty about. He was in search of a better quality of life as we all are. God is the author and finisher of our lives and there is nothing you could have done or said that could have changed the fact that your coworker would not have been here today. I know nothing I can say will make you feel better, but please try to understand that these things are not in your hands. Take care, Vanessa

(((((((((((((Marty)))))))))))))))))) Dont blame yourself, I know its hard to not feel responsible since the person had surgery in part b/c of your success. Each person has to make the choice for him/herself. Keeping the family and you and yours in prayer. Hugs Kelly s

Oh Marty, I am so sorry to hear this, but please don't beat yourself up over this, this was a decision that only god can control, and remember he has a plan for all of us. Just know that I'm praying for his family. Stay strong, Melissa