UnHappy in Cali (Dawg MDC)

A few years ago I got an infection in my Left Leg (Cellulites) and me not being into going to doctors cuz I was one of those Tuff Guys not asking for help wit a problem, well it got out of had and because of it, i slip in the shower and was on my ass for the next month, at that point, my legs got weak and started gaining a lot of weight, i lost my job, as a On Call Computer Tech, and lost friends, had to leave my girl, i had it all and lost it all within a year, Now I'm a prisoner in my home MY PARENTS HOME to make it worse, cant clean my room or a shower without having the help of Pain Medication (Vic Odin's) I sit at home and burst into tears ,,i had no job, no insurance, nobody wanted to help me cuz of that, so i was put on Disability and automatically put on Medical (Straight Medical) is what they call it, i was told to correct my legs i had to lose major weight or the surgery on my legs would be for nothing, so im seeking out Bypass Surgery to help in my Goal to get my legs back, its sounds stupid, but its all i have to look forward to right now, I've asked my doctors for help and they do what they can when they feel like it, maybe seeking help outside the box wouldn't hurt,, it seems like I'm venting ,I'm just frustrated and depress all i want is my life back.

Hi Steven. Sounds like the weight surgery is the thing for you too. I had to lose weight so I can have both my knees replaced and my back operated on again. I pray that all goes well for you and getting it done. I know exactly how you feel as far as the pain and the not being able to clean. I am here if you need anyone to talk to. I will do what I can to help. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

Steven, Sounds like you have had a rough time as of late. Please don't give up hope! I will keep you in my prayers that your approval comes through soon, your surgery is successful and you make a full recovery. You are doing the right thing by reaching out for support. Continue to do so. The people here are wonderful. We all share a common bond and are able to support one another through that bond. Hang in there! A new day is coming! Hugs, Tonya

Hi Steven, so glad you made it here to let us help and encourage you!