I am new here....all comments accepted

Hi D'Lynn and WELCOME!!!! Although I am sure I am older than you, I have an 18yr old and a 15 yr old (14 at the time of my surgery) that I was afraid I would not see graduate from college/high school. I have had asthma since birth and my asthma was getting worse & worse. My mom (also MO) developed asthma as an adult. She had an asthma attack, which triggered a heart attack, and in a matter of 15 minutes, she went from fine to gone. THAT scared the bejeebers out of me. I did a lot of research into this surgery before I decided, but once I made the decision, it was full steam ahead. I have not had the benefit of a local support group, but I feel I have been very blessed with the folks on this board. I don't think there is a better support group. You will not find the "cattiness" on here that you may find elsewhere. God Bless you on your journey, and I look forward to seeing you on here on a regular basis! -Tami 340/230/healthy

Tami, I have researched for a while, and my hubby said when it first came out..NO..he didnt want me to have it. Now I have made up my mind, and told him I wanted it for me..not him. He has accepted that I am going to do it with or without his consent, so he is supportive now. He loves me anyway I am...but I am the one who is not happy. Lately my kids have made comments about me being big or something like that, and it has really hurt my feelings, although they dont know that. I am sorry about your mom, not sure if dying suddenly or slowly and painfully is easier...although I know none of it is easy.

Welcome Girl!! You have found the best place in the world for support. I absolutely adore all the people on the Ga board here. I completely understand you. I'm having my surgery soon I hope. Have one more test to complete and then I get my surgery date. Anytime you want to talk I'm off and on every day. I have relatives that live down your way, only a little farther in Hazelhurst and Baxley. I researched this surgery for 2 years before I decided to go ahead and make a move. It has been the best decision I could of ever made. I feel in control of my life for the first time in a very long time, maybe even the first time. Please keep us updated on your progress. Welcome and please remember to keep your goal in mind. HUGGSS!! Tonya Waters p.s. if you have yahoo my id there is tonyameashellw im me anytime

Welcome, welcome, welcome!!! You have found an awesome group of people to give you support and information. I don't know what I would have done without them!!! Shree