Need to tell yall something funny...

Hi ya'll.... I have been single for 12 yrs now.. I have always felt invisable and very uncomfortable talking to most men in general... the girls I work with kid me about men flirting and I ignore them... I try to be nice but... I just really dont know how to do the flirting thing... any way, I was outside the shop tonight and the really good looking guy came to talk to me.... HE looked AT me and talked and smiled and just asked me questions..... I turned around to see which one of the girls I work with he was talking to....... I was alone out there girls said he wa****ting on me .... I did give him a bussness card and told him he could come back... but I just dont know how to do this any more .... what do you do?? I feel like such an idiot.....

So, I am not the only one who doesn't know how to flirt. It's been 16 years for me. When you find out the answer please email me. I need a few lessons myself. Charlene

You go girl! I have been married 25 years so am out of practice too. I wouldn't worry about flirting, I would just act like yourself and charm him with your wit and good looks. I know you can do it. Let me know how it goes. I have comfidence in you that you can do it. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

You are so SWEET.... wit and good looks *looking around to see who Debra is talking to*..... thanks i am not used to that either

Get use to it my friend. You are a beautiful woman. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

It happens to us all. I may only be 21, but I haven't even started dating yet, so I know what it can be like. I agree with the other reply's. Show this guy your beautiful smile, your sexy style, and your great personality! (most of all, just relax - it all gravy, baby! ) He'll melt! God Bless, TIffany.

Thank you Tiffany.. you are so sweet.... good luck on your approval.... You did real good with that dr...... Kiwani

Don't mention it! And thank you! I am DETERMINED to get this done! Go get 'em Kiwi! Tiffany.

Girl, You just hold your head high and go with the flow! I know it's easier said than done. You go skinny-mini!! Hugs, Tonya

Just be your beautiful self. In Europe, there were several times that gentlemen flirted with me, and, for the life of me, I could not figure out what I had done to encourage this. Of course, following a man into a stockroom in order to use the employee restroom might not have been wise on my part. I thought he was just being nice until I felt him patting my behind and talking (in broken Italian english) about liking women with big bottoms as I washed my hands. He was so small, I could have sat on him and smashed him. I was in a state of shock for quite a while. Fortunately, I had already used the restroom when this happened. My traveling buddies finally figured it out. When you look at men in the eyes and smile, you are indicating you are approachable...and I thought I was just being friendly. Hugs, Becky