Discouraged today...

The doctors office called today and said instead of 40 lbs I need to lose 60lbs before they would submit to insurance. If I could lose 60lbs by myself I wouldn't need the surgery...

How frustrating!!! Are they trying to get your BMI down for safety reasons? It seems like many surgeons are starting to become more strict lately. Some folks on here have lost prior to surgery and can give suggestions for getting started. I was NOT one of them, so I'm definitely not preaching...just want you to know that we are here to support you. Something similar happened to a gal on this board, Holly Ritter. She changed to another surgeon and is post op now. I don't know your particular health issues, but this might be something to consider. Either way, blessings to you on your weight loss journey, Janet! Hugs, Becky

Janet, I am so sorry that things are getting rough for you. Who is your surgeon? We are all here to help in any way we can. Just yell. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

My surgeon is Dr. Angstadt of Memorial Bariatrics in Savannah

Have you asked why he wants you to lose so much? I would check into some other doctors and see what they have to say. Just my opinion. I am here if you need me. Hugs, Debra

That is soooo frustrating!! If you really want to have the surgery, I know you can do it! Don't give up gal. We are here to support you and offer you encouragement! HUgs, Tonya

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!! I swear! Sometimes you just want to pop their heads! I am here praying for you. I know how it can be, my doctor wants me to workout and I have back problems and blisters from my thigh's rubbing together. He tell's me "walk against the pain!" And he wants to put me on diet pills! If I was successful with diet pills, I wouldn't need them. All I can say is, I understand. If you ever need someone to vent to- email me! I wish the best for you, keep your head up! Sometimes you just have to fight, and in the end it will be that much more worthwhile. God Bless, Tiffany