TOTALLY O.T. !!!!!!! Baby on the way???

I am sorta torn here guys..... I have two daughters oldest , married, with daughter and a baby on the way...... Youngest... unmarried, just moved in with a man ... she is 20 he is 24.... she is pregnant... she hasnt told me yet!!!!!! She has SOOOO much growing up to do.... I wanted her to wait.... she has never even talked about kids, she has very little tolarance , I have no idea what I will say when she DOES tell me... It is NOT the fact that she isnt married, it is that she is SO immature... What am I going to say??????? Her sister has talked to her and told her not to expect excitment from me when she tells me I am sure she doesnt .... that is exactly WHY she hasnt told me ....

Shyra, thanks for that... Oh and I love my daughters and I will love this baby too... I am so happy to be a grammy.... I am just worried about her and about her haveing a baby... I had one wonderfull grandmother and have always wanted to be just like her... I like the fact that I am a "young" grammy I had a daughter at 20 and wasnt married, although I did marry him after she was born... I dont want to see her mess up and I dont want to see her marry because of the baby, but I hope that this is what makes her grow up...

Hi Kiwani, You know I don't have kids, but I'm here it you want to talk. Call me!! Martha

Hi Kiwi, I know how you feel. My youngest daughter is not very mature either. She is talking about getting married to a guy she has only known 2 weeks. She has taken so many chances at getting pregnant and never told me when she thought she was. I was not sure what way I was supposed to feel. Since she wants to keep taking the chances and isn't on birth control, I am letting her go for it. She thinks that she can do what she wants, when she wants, with who she wants since she is 18. All I have told her is that when all else fails (if it does) that I am here for her. Maybe this is what she will need to grow up. I don't know if this helps, but remember I am here if you need me. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

My stepdaughter is pregnant, 20 and unmarried. I know exactly how you feel. My stepdaughter is very immature too!! On top of that I have an impressionable 11 year old who idolizes her sister. My daughter told me she thought the fact that her sister is pregnant is "disgusting". I stressed to her that we have to remember that this is a little baby coming into our family and we will love it and nurture it. We are both excited now and can't wait to keep it overnight (it will be here in April)!! Anyway, hang in there and know that there are others out here who are going through the same thing. We will just get a WONDERFUL reward when it is all over with (goochy goo!!) Carol