Need Extreme Help

Hi all, I have a huge favor to ask all of the members of this Georgia Messageboard. Some of the older members will probably remember about Jessica in MN who had so many problems and was flown down here by Crece Hare for the help she needed. The problem is that she use to post on the main board but got so much hate mail and stuff to that effect that she stopped posting at all. She needs all the support she can get. She is back home but is still having a lot of trouble with the open woud and everything she is having to do to take care of herself. She would love to have somewhere to post but is so afraid that the problems she has had will scare everyone who is wanting the surgery from having it done. I told her I would ask the group and get their opinions for her. Hers is a very unique case and doesn't happen but maybe 1 in 5000 surgeries. Her main problem was the bad doctor she had who neglected her. Can she post and belong to this great group without being sent bad emails and without fear of scaring others off from the surgery. You can email me at [email protected] and I can call her and tell her. Let's all help this lady feel wanted and needed and that she really counts to us. She needs positive feedback and not the negative. She is so down. She loves Georgia and wants to move here so bad. Please let me know what to tell her. Hugs and Love to this whole group, Debra =^..^=

Debra I have been keeping up with her profile. I think that she needs a group like this to be able to talk to. I would love to have her here as a member of our group. As you know I'm about to have this surgery and her story does not scare me away.... She has my vote. Hugs, Martha

I think it's important for EVERYONE to post abouttheir experience...whether it was good, bad or ugly. We need to educate each other, especially pre-ops about what COULD happen. This surgery is not a walk in the park for everyone. Best wishes! Sherry

I vote yes, if I can be here, anybody can.... I am "on the fence" about surgery, controversial, fight on the Main Board and come here on the weekends while Hubby works to socialize, I am scared to come to the social events here and I don't have a profile or an email connection and at one point, I left the board completely and came back under a fake name! Some folks think I am a "cloak" because I keep myself so anonymous. So, I have done a lot of no no's and I am still here. I say if I can stay anyone can stay. I've broken lots of rules, let's just say I am not exactly a "favorite" but there are folks who still talk to me. (so far) Tell her to change her post name through her profile to Miracle1/5000 or something, faith can do a lot. Maybe she will be healed. I will pray that she is... And on a practical side, without having to repeat herself, she can let the occaisional "newbie" know that she's not the usual case by her post name.Something like specialcasewoman or unusualsurgerysadie or complicationslady or something. And (one of my favorite tips) if she is "afraid" she can have the option on her profile not to have an email connection and if she has a post name it will help protect her privacy. Unusual cases are God's favorites. Tell her to get her bottom on this Board!!! Dondi P.S. I signed up for freecycle and I love it, thanks for the tip! D.

Hey Dondi, Thank you for your comments. I don't judge people. None of us do all the things we are suppose to. You can email me any time and give me your email and I will email you back. I am here for you anytime. Just let me know. As the saying goes, Jesus love you and so do I. If he doesn't hold a grudge against someone, who would I be to do what he would not? Let me know if you need anything. Hugs, Debra =^..^=

I vote yes to her posting on the GA Board. We all have issues and we all help each other through positive feedback to resolve those issues. I think we need to show her the same true southern hospatility that we show each other. I would hate to think anyone in Georgia would be unkind to a fellow human being. Carolyn

By all means tell her she can post here! She shouldn't let a few weakminded individuals stop her from posting anywhere on this site for that matter. She cannot help the things that happened to her. Tell her if she wants another friend to talk to that she can email me at ****[email protected] I would be more than happy to be there for her. There is no understanding people sometimes, so she should try and shrug that off. Although, I know saying and doing that is totally different. HUGGGSS!!! Tonya W p.s. i also joined up with free cycle and it is really neat

You know how I feel about this She's more than welcome here of course! Amy

I love the members here - one more can only mean one more person to LOVE!!!! I vote DEFINATELY she can post here!

I vote yes to I think everybody needs love and she shouldnt be scared tell her we are all here for her and we will welcome her with open arms!!!hugsssssss Amy