I have a question! Tami please read.

I was wondering, This is my first time doing the secret pal thing. How often are we supose to do things for my secretpal?

I'm not Tami but if I remember right, anytime you think she or he might enjoy a pick me up. Birthdays, surgery anniversaries, wedding anniversaries, Christmas, etc. Or for no special reason at all just to let them know you are thinking about them. Hope this helps, Debra

I am not Tami either but you can do something as often as you like. An ecard is quick and free and makes someone feel special --- I would say some kind of contact once a month, e-card, mailed card, email just to say hello. JMHO...Enjoyed Saturday night. Hugs and prayers, Theresa

There are no rules...the info provided gives you a little insight to your person, and what dates are important to him/her. Don't spend a lot of money... just a quick card, a little something, etc. This is just a "feel good" thing... Enjoy!!