My mind plays tricks on me!

It's so crazy. I remember about 2 1/2 years ago when I'd think about going to do some house work that it would take me hours sometimes just to do the dishes. It was hard to get everything in order. I would have to use a stool to sit and wash dishes. My back would kill me from standing too long and with my weight I just couldn't handle standing up for any long amount of time. It was hard to get my arms up there even without being out of breath. In my mind I still believe that I'm tired. It's the weirdest thing. Then I'll get to doing the dishes and before I know it I'm done and off mopping the floor, folding clothes, cleaning the bathroom, etc. I'm still amazed today what I can do in such a short amount of time. It's wonderful the things in life I can now do again. I don't complain about cleaning anymore, I'm just thankful I can do it! MYSELF! Life's too short to not be thankful for what you can do today. Sometimes I'll be down about how my legs look and then I think to myself I could have no legs, so again I'm thankful each day that I'm living, I've got my legs and I don't have the fear of dying like I once did each night when I would close my eyes. Whenever I'm down I think back to what life was once like and I'm grateful for what I have! This is a week to be thankful for what you have, I'm thankful everyday. What are you most thankful for? Amy

Hi Amy, I know that it is really nice to be able to do all these things and not get tired anymore. I really like being able to complete the house chores and still have time for myself. Well, I came home form the hospital today and I'm feeling really sore, I guess that is a small price we pay. I had one really big stone that was giving me so many problems. So now I'm back to square one, another 8 to 10 weeks of just walking no excerising. I just hope that this does not really slow my weight loss down. Thanks again for being here! Dorothy(Jeannie)

I had a good friend who was having issues with her gallbladder and it was slowing her loss down for some reason. Once it was removed she started losing again and just felt much better. Don't worry, I didn't get to do much in terms of exercise in the beginning, but the loss continued. Just do what you can and heal. You'll be fine Amy

I am thankful for my husband, family and my dream of finially having a child after 15 years of trying (partly in thanks to RNY bypass). Kia - 20 weeks pregnant 1/2 way there! (It's a BOY)

That is so sweet!! I didn't realize you are pregnant! Congrats to you!! Amy

Amy, Just like you, and everyone else, my mind still plays tricks on me. I still see myself at 367 wearing a 34/36 bottom. I catch myself passing a mirror and think who is that woman? Life is eaier weighing less!! I am so thankful for my husband, my kids, family,friends and for my job! When I start getting down about having no $$, I have to stop and remind myself that it could always be worse. We could have no house, no income, no freedom. I am also so very greatful to my other family, YOU GUYS!!!! ya'll are such a great support, and although I have not met many of ya, I love ya all. Cynde rny 10-10-05 367-212-180

Glad you are doing so well! That's great! I know what you mean about seeing yourself in the mirror, I still can't believe it! Amy

I am very thankful for so many things, but like you most of all this surgery saving my life. It had gotten to the point that I couldn't bend over to pick anything up w/o my back going out and was out for days... It was terrifying... I felt 80 years old in a 43 year old body... I'm so thankful for my husband Kenny, he's so supportive and proud of me. I have great friends and family and so appreciate you and this website.

Judy, That's awesome! My husband's name is Kenneth. You have a wonderful holiday! We are glad you are here with us. Amy

Where to begin....I started my journey at 350+ and currently stay around 165 - 170. I LOVE being at the gym, I love that I have the freedoms that I have. I don't have to be ashamed of what I look like, I can go places and feel "Normal". I don't hurt just to walk (Unless I've worked out too hard....which is a good hurt!) I'm thankful for my family, my friends, my jobs, my health, Mostly I'm thankful to GOD for giving me the gift of life!!! I hope everyone has a WONDERFUL and happy Thanksgiving! Dee Dee