What is wrong with these men?
I have been reading alot of post lately about men leaving after their wife has gastric bvpass, but I never saw this one coming. Here I thought I had this great loving marriage. My husband calls my family and tells them to get me out of the house for the day because he has a mothers day suprise. Well I sure got surprised come home to an empty house. He emptied out the house and bank account and took off. I feel so betrayed, I just don't understand!
HOLY CRAP! Go to a lawyer immediately... your DH had the legal right to take 50% of the money, but not all of it. Your lawyer can get half the money back... and half the household stuff.
Did he leave records/ tax paperwork? You need to photocopy everything. I know you're in shock and you feel betrayed, but mourn later. Right now you need to protect yourself.
WHAT A JERK! I am so sorry!!!! {{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}
carol L.
Susann:
So sorry to hear about your news. Do you have a close friend, sister or mother who can help you? It's hard to think logically during this time because of all the emotions running wild in your head, like being on a roller coaster ride. Whatever the cir****tances that made him leave like that, who knows? Just know that it will get easier to deal with over time.
The board is here for you. Let us know how you are doing.
Hugs,
Kelly S
Hugs,
Kelly S I often feel the pysch consult should be for the spouse as well. The woman or male post bypass surgery is not only taking charge of thier life, they are feeling more confident and empowered. They are noticing that they are looking better and feeling better about themselves.
The partner used to being the source of control, feelings, and power- is suddenly faced with the fact they are nolonger #1, all powerful ruler and source of good/bad feelings. They dont like it as the relationship was built on this. They flee.
Anyways that is what I am told. Not a very good explaination. But I hope you get the gist of it.
Oh, Susan.... this must really hurt.... not only that he's left, but the way he did...ouch....I wish you lots of strength in recovering from this blow. I'm not a vengeful person by nature, but in your case... he deserves panishment. what a ******* he's! And you deserve fairness.I hope you are better soon.
best wishes to you,
big hugs,
Rita.
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