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I am 6months out and about 115lbs down. I aws 325 and i am now 206lbs. I am having issues with my body image. Is anyone else having this problem? Everytime i see someone skinnier then i am i start to think my new husband is goign to leave me or stare at them. He has been with me when i was a lil heavier then wat i am now and then at my heaviest so i know he loves me for me but still. Any suggestions? Thanks Kristina

Hey Kristina, Have you talked with a professional Pyscharist? I know that mine has helped me pre-op. Don't be ashamed...a lot more people do it than you would think. Good luck & you should be very proud of yourself!!!!! Hugs, ~Jen W.~

Kristina, You are definitly NOT alone in this! I have been having huge body image issues for a couple months now and I started seeing a counselor a couple times/month. There is no way we can lose an extreme amount of weight and not feel like our mind hasnt caught up to our body. I think if it is possible you should seek out someone to talk thru this with, if you cant get to a counselor maybe you can discuss with a support group. It is very beneficial for me. Hang in there, girlie...you are beautiful and will see that in yourself soon enough! Amy -180lb

First of all - Congratulations on losing 115 lbs in 6 months! I'm out 9 and havent' reached that yet. I know we all reach that point of having body image issues - believe me - being single and seeing the hanging skin is no picnic..now I wonder if anyone will love me the way I am. But you have a husband that you say loves you for you - Congratulations you have found GOLD, don't let it slip away. Someone posted to speak to a psychotherapist or psychiatrist - but I think it could even be simpler to speak to your husband and express your concerns as you continue to lose weight. You might discover that you may be thinking the same thing - for example he may be thinking that as you get slimmer and sexier that you will leave HIM..so he might be going through some concerns as well. I think if ya talk it out..you will discover that having the same concerns - will strengthen you - not tear you apart.

Hey sweetie! I so know you feel. I am having issues with my loose skin. I have also lost the boobies! It is all a matter of time. Just try and remember what you used to look and feel like and be thankfull for shrinking this far. Chin up honey! Kimie post-op 9 months -120 lbs

thank you all for your suggestions.. i have started a antidepressant and im seeking some medical help im now up to 125lbs lost in almost 7months take care kristina