wrong choices

well i am posting this in reply to laurie p leaving, i have read over and over the postings that she said was slanders and wrong to have been said, i myself am 16 days out and wound never eat the things that she is eating i tried to darn hard to get this surgery and i want it to work, at two weeks out i cant even imagine trying the stuff she has i want to continue with this great weight loss and dont want anything to jepordize it. but i must say that i consider laurie a friend of mine and her choices are heer choices BUT if you post it then be ready for the negative response!!!!!! to each is own kassandra

Kassandra- I agree----I am 4 years out and dont follow to a T....what I am supposed to eat...but I know what I'll get flamed for ....so I don't tell on myself...hee hee.....I agree if you post it...then prepare to hear from all the wonderful people who are really here to tell us it's a No-No...Thats why I come here....Its a rough road---but with the support of OH members ...Its alot easier!.....Good Luck hon

Kassandra....I don't think Laurie left. I think she is lurking around and reading now. All those posts were pulled, as they should have been. I think Lynda may have asked to have them pulled. I didn't see the last posts...but I understand that she posted something to me about "was that a bad face lift or did I need help with my makeup". That is vindictive and mean. No one, and I mean NO ONE on this site was mean or vindictive to her. I feel sorry for Laurie. She is apparently stubborn and cannot take criticism in any form. Even when someone is trying to help her she slaps them in the face with insults while crying that everyone is slandering her. Well, its over. I hope you remain friends with Laurie. She is going to need them. But I have a feeling that she will go her own way...do what she wants...to hell with everyone else...and in a year she will be wondering where those 15 pounds of regain came from...... I was truly concerned about her....as everyone else who posted to her. I hope she reconsiders her position....and stays here for support. Good for you Kassandra. You should do well. Hugs Charlie

I don't think Laurie left either. I think she just did the hair-flip leaving-the-board post, but since she posted a couple of times since then, I also think she's lurking. I hope she reads the posts and gets some wisdom! I hope she checks out Susan Maria's rant this month and takes what it says to heart for herself. I know I take it to heart! My battle is just beginning now and I'm bound and determined to win it!! I have to make good choices each and every day and it never, ever includes just a taste of sugar!! Best to you all and thanks for trying to help, Charlie!! Jan -103