Need some suggestions

Hey Guys, I need some Valentine's Day suggestions... I met a great guy last week and we have plans for tomorrow and Saturday, so for the first time in MANY years, it looks like I may have a Valentine this year . I need some suggestions on what is appropriate to honor Valentine's day but isnt too over the top for the short period we have been seeing each other. I cant think of anything. I thought about making him dinner, but the oven is broken so it would have to be either a crock pot, stove top recipe or take out (none of which seem too romantic). I can probably find a generic card, but do I buy him anything else? He needs a new wallet but is that too weird to buy for him this early???? Cologne isnt an option, he has too much already. Help!!!!! OK, so maybe this is becoming Amy's own personal Q of the D? Amy

I think something cute and funny would be ok. I have the same issue but mine is more than one guy. One loves peanut butter cups and Hershey Bars so I have thought about getting a jar and putting his favorite chocolate candies in it. I have a date Friday night with a new guy. I think I am going to wait till Sunday to see if I really have a valentine or not. Now to get back to your question: Do Something simple and cute and funny.

First off..........................Glad to hear you are going out this weekend. Second. I agree with Martha. (By the way,Martha, .....You go girl) Something cute is a great idea. What do you know about his likes. Candy is a cute idea if you know what he really likes. If you know something he enjoys or needs that is great. I guess even a wallet would be okay, put in a balloon and full of play money. If you want to cook him a meal, maybe HIS place would work. You just tote your groceries over (with his permission) and just cook it over there. Or you could buy one of the meals on your time out together and give him a card at that time. You are a smart lady and this guy is lucky to be with you. I am sure you will think of just the right thing. Have a GREAT Great weekend. Carol

Shouldn't HE be planning something??? Being a new relationship and not wanting to put myself out there..(just Me)I would wait to see what HE does. Is he making any suggestions for the day? If not than whatever you plan should be a "backup" plan. How about the movies and grabbing some dinner first? A self-made card is appropriate (if you can do it yourself). I'd keep it simple this time around then as you get to know him more then I'd be into planning some additional stuff. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do - and keep us posted!

Thanks for the ideas, you're absolutely right about feeling him out before I jump to any elaborate plans. I should have a better understanding after we spend more time together this weekend. I love the idea of a homemade card, been a long time, but I'm thinking I might do that

Amy- I hope this answer is not too late for you. First off congrats on the date. Second-- I don't want to seem like I am raining on your parade. But remember Valentines Day is just plain not a big deal to a lot of folks. It never has been a big deal for me or my sweetie and for that matter most of the people I know. I would hate to see you get disappointed and hurt. Whatever you decide definitely keep it low key and on the funny side. I would not buy a gift this early out. Maybe you could "feel" him out about V-day on one of your earlier dates. Good luck and have fun.

Oh, I completely agree with you! I am more apprehensive/tenative about anything related to men because of my past. I just wanted to at least have a game plan in place ahead of time if he wants to get together and do something for V-Day. I'm thinking simple and whimsical, if I do anything. Thanks for the response and I'll let you all know what happens next week. Cross your fingers, toes and eyes for me ! Amy -150lb.

Great news Amy and I think you'll do fine! Plenty of suggestions and I'm sure you'll put your own personal spin on it and make it perfect. Good luck and I hope you have a wonderful vanlentines day and night ;)~