Goodbye !

Goodbye everyone sense i found out my tumor in my abdamen area is back and its not even two years yet i can not have wls, so i see it this way im going to die without wls bc im too big and that was my boost and i been on diets all my life so im laying it down and say goodbye!Please dont feel sorry for me,just pray for me thatnk you all!

Neil, I am so sorry to hear that you are facing another tumor. I'm sure that was devastating news. I will pray that things turn around for you and that you find a path to a healthier life with or without WLS. Take care, Amy

You will be in my prayers. Do not give up the battle. We never know what is in store so fight this tumor with all you have. I also want to say that you can always stay in touch here. Let us know how you are doing. Carol

Hi Neil, I am sorry to hear about your sad news. Don't give up, keep on fighting. I hope everything works out for you and I will send you lots of prayers and well wishes. Hugs, Christine

Neil, I'll keep you in my thoughts. I wonder though, why you want to quit OH.com. There is no reason for you to stop fighting, or for you to stop being in touch with us. We are all here for support, regardles if you have WLS or not. Even if you cannot have the surgery, please try to let us know of your progress. Wishing you all the best, -Flávia.

be brave

Neil, You'll remain in my thoughts and prayers! Remember, this site is not only for post-ops. If you ever need to talk, just email me. Love & Prayers, Erika L

TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL THY HEART AND LEAN NOT TO YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING...SELAH... WHEN MAN SAYS NO, GOD SAYS YES. CONTINUE YOUR FIGHT AND TRUST IN THE LORD. I SEE THIS AS A FAITH TEST. YOU HAVE COME TOO FAR TO BE LEFT ALONE AND GOD DOESN'T DO THAT TO HIS CHILDREN. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. AND I ASK THAT YOU SEEK THE WISDOM OF GOD SO THAT YOU CAN RECEIVE WISDOM ON HOW TO FIGHT AGANIST THE ENEMY AND RECEIVE YOUR BLESSING. THE BLESSING IS YOURS...SELAH... YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE IT BY FORCE. THE FORCE OF PRAYER... HAVE A BLESSED DAY. RUTH

Neil, I am so sorry to hear your sad news...I hope everything turns around for you. I wish you would stay on OH and still get support, we are all here for you and would love to have you here for us!! I don't know if anything said helps, but I know a few sayings that I still tell myself when I get knocked down: "Never say never", "Things could be worse, no matter how dire they look right now", "This is just a test", "Everything happens for a reason", and last but not least, "Don't say goodbye, just say see you later"!!! I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason, even if we can't see what the reason is and you should just keep going and trying, because you'll never know unless you actually try. I'll be thinking about you and praying that everything turns out ok! Email me if you ever need to talk. -Phoenix