OT: My boss can be sucha jerk sometimes...

Vivi *.
on 10/18/04 2:42 am - clermont, FL
Today I woke up and realized that I had lost 3 pds. over the weekend!! That was great, I was on cloud 9!!! Couldn't be happier. When I came in to work, I got a call from my boss letting me know that I had misspelled a word in the Letter of Interest I had sent to a client (Major Government Entity), and that we would probably not get the job because of ME. He said he "wanted to get to the bottom of it and that I needed to explain to him how such thing happened." (!!???) Well, he did not stop there, why should he, right?! He brought it up in a meeting (in which I was not present/invited but could overhear from my desk), publicly humiliated me in front of the entire staff! Please note: I have been trying to get transferred to the business development branch, where they do nothing but proposals, and the branch manager was at the meeting who will now (probably) not hire me. What makes me really mad, is that I spoke to others, who have a lot of experience in this industry, they said that a misspelling does not make or brake the job, what brakes the job is "who the project manager is" and my boss was just using me as a escape goat; once he would never admit that he was not the right person to be in that organizational chart presented to begin with... In this business we have to be accurate, I know, and I take full responsibility for it. But did he have to be such a jerk? AAGGHHH I wish I could just quit. Thanks for letting me vent. Flavia 223/180.5/115
Lexa321
on 10/18/04 3:18 am - weston, FL
ohh girl.. he sounds like a jerk... i hope yall get the job so he can shut up... congradulations on your 3LBS.. you doin great!!!!!!!!
elayne36
on 10/18/04 5:00 am - Bradenton, FL
You boss really can be a jerk especially bringing it up at meeting that you were not present at to even defend yourself. I hope the other job comes through for you. Nobody has to put up with a jerk like that! Another 3 lbs - way to go - dont let him get you down. Elaine
consuelo2663
on 10/18/04 6:44 am - ORLANDO, FL
MY BOSS WAS A JERKY TOO. THATS WHY I FOUND MYSELF A BETTER JOB ,WHEN I LOST ALL THE POUNDS. MY GASTRIC BY PASS WAS 01/15/03. I JUST HAD THE TUMMY TUCK ON 09/07/04. TOTAL OF WEIGHT LOSS 120 LB. ONCE YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF YOU DONT TAKE IT FROM ANYONE. THIS MY PROFILE INFOR:http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/status.phtml?N=g1060957397
Justina Falcone
on 10/18/04 6:53 am - Ft Myers, Fl
I don't post much, and I'm rather new, but I read all your posts and feel like I "know" you, so I felt really bad when I read this today. Hope things start to look up for you. Maybe you should look for a job OUTSIDE of your present company. . . . just a thought.
Vivi *.
on 10/18/04 11:42 am - clermont, FL
Thank you Justina, it is nice to know there are people out there who cares. I think a lot of looking else where, but not now. They are very flexible with my schedule and pay me more than market value, so as a single mom, and a full time student, plus full time worker, I think I have my hands tied at this point. But, some time soon, I'll brake free!! Feel free to email me any time you feel like. Flavia
AC
on 10/18/04 6:57 am - Albuquerque, NM
Hey Flavia... Even JERKS have jobs, unfortunately.... lol.. Don't let him steal your joy... there are joy-thieves everywhere!!!!!!!! Just keep doing your best; God has a way of reconciling......! (smile)
Vivi *.
on 10/18/04 11:46 am - clermont, FL
thx, AC. "God has a way to reconciling" that was well put, will write it on my desk tmrw. morning. Gracias!!! Flavia
AC
on 10/19/04 8:27 am - Albuquerque, NM
De nada!
K D.
on 10/18/04 9:04 am - Sunny South Florida, FL
Don't worry my little Brazilian. What comes around goes around!! I am sure the people he was talking to realized he was using you as a escape goat. If he was a good manager he would have proofread it himself. Regards KD
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