i could use a prayer or two...

today marks 3 years since my brother's death. www.ourfallenbrother.com no this is not a joke he died 24 hrs (to the minute) after my son was born (my son turned 3 yesterday). i'm so greatful to have my son b/c i can see a little of my brother is in him. whenever i got depressed i used to turn to food, and i'm trying VERY hard not to this time. please send me some strength vibes and a prayer or two if you don't mind. thanks ya'll no this is not a joke he died 24 hrs (to the minute) after my son was born (my son turned 3 yesterday). i'm so greatful to have my son b/c i can see a little of my brother is in him. whenever i got depressed i used to turn to food, and i'm trying VERY hard not to this time. please send me some strength vibes and a prayer or two if you don't mind. thanks ya'll no this is not a joke he died 24 hrs (to the minute) after my son was born (my son turned 3 yesterday). i'm so greatful to have my son b/c i can see a little of my brother is in him. whenever i got depressed i used to turn to food, and i'm trying VERY hard not to this time. please send me some strength vibes and a prayer or two if you don't mind. thanks ya'll

Hi Jamie, Hang in there. My father died two days before my WLS, and every year I have a tough time, too. I'll bet that your brother would have been amazed watcing your son, as well as his own, grow up. And he would have been your surgery champion. I am sending some prayers and good thoughts your way! Hang in there, hon. Kristen

Hi Jamie, I know exactly how you feel, I lost my Older Sister 11yrs ago. And every year on Her Anniversery I don't do to well. So my thoughts and Prayers are with you... Rocko~~

Do not turn to food, your brother would be very proud of you for not eating. We all have the habit of that and we need to stop. It is always tough to lose and sister or brother. Mine was only 45 when she died and she should be here with me today. She was very heavy and did not take care of her diebietes. It will be 15 years this month. The 19th. I just remember her as she was and her happy times. Never forget just adjust. Love and prayers to you. Sandy W.

thank you guys for your support! i did pretty good yesterday

There is always a balance in society. Who knows, or why your brother had to die, I do not know. But I do know this, You are living and that is a miracle. You have a purpose.

Prayers, and hugs sent your way!