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Yep I?m a little tired and still coughing productively a week after the flu and Covid shots . Pretty much died after 3 PM gardening yesterday and took a bubble bath and snoozed . Didn?t even eat dinner except for a mug of soup and herbal tea latte .
Started the grass laying project though - aim to finish at least 2/3 of it on the main part of the terrace.
Its going to be fun planning and planting the permanent boxes - but they?re on a south facing hot brick wall . Water is ALWAYS an issue here ( can put in a self watering system in with a timer- just more work ) .
I need to plant desert conditions loving climbers here too ? I?m not sure roses buddleias reblooming irises and clematis, painted daisies and dahlias will work here due to the relentless sun beat down.
Trying large flowering jasmine as the climber out of desperation too - it?s a tropical which I try not to use up north but it can take the heat .
Even the morning glories I?m experimenting with are wilting here mid afternoon grrr . It?s a bit of a 35 foot long tough spot - unless you like thorny cactuses lol!
I?m assembling a panalapan ( a latticed open roof basically ) over the dining table so it can be used during the day . Wisteria , campsis and grapevines should shade it thoroughly and both flower and fruit . We?ll see !
Have to drive out to Long Island in the afternoon to shop at Walmart go to the library to prepare documents for tomorrow and trim back a huge hedge .
Monumental task as always ! Need to collect boat dock rent from two tenants too before they pull their boats without paying . Sometimes I feel like my life is such a mess lol!
B - uneaten three times heated chicken katsu from last night s prospective dinner . Sticky rice veg n peas and golden curry Japanese gravy . Chai tea latte .
Midnite snack confession -1/2 piece of Juniors lemon pound cake , tea . Yep I know it?s bad to eat late .
L- Greek lemon chicken soup breaded fried chicken strips w katsu Japanese curry , three types salad ( Moroccan carrot, tabouleh, Israeli. Chai tea latte w piece pistachio baklava
D- something small like soup n tea .
snack - maybe bites of pastry though I?m getting bored with those - Cajun shrimp ****tail?s a better choice . Or fruit .
Finished my goal - 2/3 or 26 feet of ? grass ? cut and laid ( mostly- a little trimming left to do ) . Hoses and electrical cords are hidden underneath too . Here?s a pic !l
I hope to finish unpacking the giant ( and infernally heavy) desk , tidy and dishwash, replace an outdoor GFI plug whose failure?s preventing me from using the fountain and outdoor tv and lay some grass - a big but very rewarding job
Oh and watering and repotting seemingly a million plants of course lol!
Laying the grass will let me make my big boxes permanent ( it?s all a container garden of course being on the ninth floor lol) - the bigger the better for less watering - but they get heavy , even immovable.
Cant wait to really complete my outdoor living room and little office !
Excercise and food - Last nite I ALMOST hiked home - just got tired in the end and jumped on a city bus for ten blocks or so . Also ate two small cannoli fillings , telling myself ? you can?t eat your way through New York while walking and expect to lose weight ?
Actually that?s not really true - at least for small bites . One the things I?ve always loved about the City is the built in exercise from walking. Most New Yorkers are mad foodies and skinny/ healthy.
B - coffee and chai tea lattes ,bites of pastry , olive bread . Maybe egg white ff cheddar cheese scramble .
L- Greek avgolemono ( with lemon) chicken soup w mixed veg n farro. Pollock in homemade ( ff) Thai green curry . Olives ( spicy green ones for a change ) Yemeni coffee latte n pastry bites .
D- tbd
So glad I took the time to bury compost and do three (! ) loads of dishes - I guess practically living at the courthouse since Monday and coming home late allowed the chaos to rule to the point even I was disgusted which btw is unfortunately very rare.
I don?t know whether it?s the ? artistic ? personality or just underestimating the time and effort to complete projects but I need to spend a lot more quality time fixing and maintaining my home . It?s beautiful when it?s organized and tidying IS a form of self -care .
Here are photos from walking Central Park at nite - I DO wish ( mebbe) that I had better plans for Fri nite lol.
I had to unpack three cartloads of plants this morning and get dressed and subway to Housing Court by ten so I?m just posting now.
Yesterday?s food went off plan due to unforeseen UN General Assembly caused hours long traffic jams etc .
Honestly I didn?t properly remember an appointment either ? almost started hiking most of Central Park ( from 59 th street the Southern end ) to see the small botanical garden on the Upper East side and then get home ?. Would?ve been almost six miles I think.
Makes me happy that I?m well enough to do these things ! Food wise had a good day if off plan - brunch - green soup ( Yecch ! ) from Pret ( like a warmed up kale smoothie lol) half a ciabatta roll w ham n Gruyère cheese - D- bites of chicken w broccoli in car, snack crystallized ginger, half lemon tart w tea when I finally reached home and unpacked the car ( around 10:30 pm ) exhausted like pretty much every day grrr .Estimate 3.5 miles walking same as yesterday ( watch wasn?t charged)
Today - Yemeni coffee latte, fresh squeezed OJ ( what a difference! , bit of Chicken Parm. L, D tbd.
Grant seeking today - NOT my favorite activity but necessary.
Please feel free to reply with your own photos - I?m very much looking forward to getting to know Y?all!
Lunch/ early dinner was red lentil warm gazpacho chicken soup - the slightly cooked squash slivers tiny cucumber slices and wilted arugula ( added after off the heat ) made it delicious. Chicken meatballs in peanut sauce w roasted red peppers and wilted arugula. Elis olive bread - mostly the olives - for some reason I strongly prefer them in fresh bread rather than standing alone . My worms end up eating most of the bread though. I forgot - two slices of orange sauced baked sweet potato and some fresh beet salad in Thai basil vinaigrette.
Finished my chiropractic adjustment and now about to try that Central Park walk - since I'm starting at 42nd street annd eighth avenue it?ll be seven miles if I finish . According to my watch I?ve already walked five miles today so we?ll see .
Exercise has to be fun is my rule - I'll go home if I'm not enjoying it . Works well for me in the long run .
Why not the chewables?
they are sweetened with an artificial sweetener ending in " itol" which, in itself, causes gas for some of us.
I'd love to be in a Zoom meeting with people who had the DS surgery for at least 15 plus years . I think we probably have some suggestions, stories, ideas and hints ( would love to hear other peoples suggestions on smelly gas lol) that have worked and face issues that only people into this journey with 15 plus years would have . Thoughts?
Ira
Wish I could do this !
Thank God housing court went my way and saving my home is back on the calendar ( tomorrow) rather than back to waiting for eviction by the Marshall lol .
Today will be a well deserved ? rest day ? - by this I mean unpacking and assembling a giant glass three part desk I PRAY will allow me to keep my paperwork in order , repotting a bunch of plants which to make them more or less water self sufficient- managing compost ( I generate probably a gallon of food scraps a day which would be a shame to waste when they make such good soil and feed my other pets - the worms ! and looking into formal exercise .
The other day for the first time since we moved in here 11 months ago I walked to Riverside Park ( shameful? it?s LITERALLY half a block from my building!
Discovered a gorgeous volunteer kept large octagonal flower garden and landscaped walkways leading down to the water - a beautiful spot ! And the riverside walkway itself is level and newly paved so ideal for rollerblade speed skating ( except it?s crowded and infested with highly dangerous speeding e-bikes and e-scooters ?. As is all of NYC . )
You literally can?t step off the sidewalk without taking your life in your hands - these speeding maniacs ( mostly food delivery folks ) don?t respect red lights and literally can KILL you in a collision.
I fail to understand why the City allows them in parks when they are outnumbered 100-1 by pedestrians and regular bikers and the occasional rollerblader , and they threaten running around playing kids and dogs off their leashes.
So I guess my mission now is to secure a pair of blades for NYC - and wrist guards lol in case of accident!
I asked what was on offer at the local gym : Pilates and yoga classes and Soul Cycle which sounds good but they charge $319.00 per MONTH!! .
My Medicare plan ( Healthfirst ) supposedly covers gym costs - we?ll find out .
There is also sculling on the East River - which is far better than rowing on a Peloton with the machine occupying half your living room .. but it?s unquestionably dangerous due to wakes from barges and strong whirlpools of current that have famously sunk many large ships over the years ( not to mention jet skis lol) .
I actually found out about this because a Wall Street guy I knew drowned and DIED and he was a FAR better rower than I am .
A scull is essentially a long and extremely narrow pontoon on the water you balance yourself above to row . Very capsizeable .
This sculling opportunity clearly dates back a century.
Having attended college in Cambridge I like everyone else with eyes I spent considerable time admiring the graceful anachronistic scullers on the Charles River and wished for the opportunity to join them.
I have to explore this further- sign up and try it out . I?m not trying to become a casualty after all these of struggle !
I did get a flu shot last Thursday and the latest Covid booster Monday . My arm swelled up and was VERY tender and I had ( BAD) flu symptoms including no energy constant blowing my nose and an ugly embarrassing cough until today . Still worth it for the protection but be warned !
There?s according to my Dad?s brother a Head of Hospital doctor in Budapest ( where they treat Covid not at all - even for medical professionals!)there are 216 strains of Covid worldwide so how could they possibly treat them all ?
The Covid my Parents and I caught in Hungary despite my booster vaccination before I traveled ) was much more severe than here ( my Dad?s brother was actually hospitalized)
. I understand it?s traveled here or at least some much more virulent and dangerous strain may have .
I doubt we?re getting all the information except in little asides in the media and anecdotally so as ? not to alarm the public?
Several people I know were infected with Covid recently that?s why I got the booster.
Food and exercise yesterday - skipped lunch in the Courthouse except for a soup - too exhausted to cook dinner so had lentil/ falafel hot wrap from Pret - excellent! 3.7 miles of walking . Scarfed down a Pain au Chocolat on the way home .
Today - midnite snack - half pear/ apricot tart , tea
B- Yemeni coffee latte , lentil soup w fresh arugula, probably the ginger scallion lobster w yellow rice, and a Chinese long eggplant/ sugar snap pea stir fry .
D - Katsu chicken ( pounded Panko breaded lightly fried Japanese style with Japanese sticky rice , fresh edamame and peas and Japanese golden curry .
S- papaya , grapes maybe bites of salads ( avocado / cucumber arugula, Japanese seaweed salad ( much better than it sounds ) arugula roasted tomato, orzo .
My ex- husband had a distal RNY surgery probably twenty or so years ago
. He too came from big numbers and lost and kept off most of his weight despite snacking , diabetes and a sedentary lifestyle.
The last time I saw him he seemed pretty happy and functional though his weight had crept up a bit.
He says his surgery is still functioning such as malabsorbing large amounts of fat ( yellow stools )
. He does eat a high quality ( if largely restaurant) diet though.
My surgery 16 years ago ( boy does time fly when Ure having fun lol! ) was a proximal RNY , much less serious than a DS and I was a super healthy eater and lifetime daily exerciser going in ?. Yet I, too developed vitamin deficiencies in the last few years .
The most serious was iron - to the point I couldn?t get out of bed essentially for six months last year and was dizzy just walking to the bathroom.
Turns out I had pernicious anemia and desperately needed an iron infusion.
As soon as I got it my head cleared- I became energetic and willing ( and able ) to garden, clean and take care of long neglected business .
I just had another blood draw and doc says I?m still low so I?m trying to address it with daily ferritin.
Im still not perfect with the daily vitamins - this is childish but I sorely miss Flintstones Complete Sour Vitamin gummies ( for kids ) . You can buy the same thing without the sour coating that made them taste like sour gummy bears but without the coating they stick in my teeth and throat . Poor Me lol
Ive resolved to do much better since taking vites makes me LOOK and feel and function dramatically better.
I?ve added chewable acidophilus and other pre biotics and flaxseed or evening primrose oil capsules
. Both help digestion and help curtail excess snacking and DRAMATICALLY improve skin tone and firmness all over !