ONE MORE MONTH AND I WILL BE ON MY WAY TO A NEW HEALTHY LIFE. Plus relationship...

I am back. I was on here before but decided to deactivate for awhile and now I am back... I called my surgeon's office and the insurance coordinator said I needed my weight for September November December and January.. I've gotten all my weight documented except for January which means I only have 1 more month before they send off for insurance approval. I also have to finish my sleep study so hopefully I can get that done soon.

 

 So anyway. I also met this guy and we kind of started dating well we did. Then I found out some stuff about him but we kept talking. We spent about 10 days together up until last Sunday when he went home. Well we both have been acting kind of weird. I haven't heard from since Tuesday night. I had sent him a hateful text early Tuesday morning because I got mad. He hadn't read it when I had talked to him but I kind of think he might have a read after I told him about it and gotten mad. This has happened before. My car had broke down and we couldn't see each other and he had gotten mad because he thought I was accusing him of something that he didnt do... but we made up and everything was better. So I've really been thinking alot about this surgery lately and it is starting to sink in that this might actually happen fairly soon. I haven't told this guy about it so he thinks I am just freaking out and being emotional for no reason. When I tried to tell him about it. I got scared and changed the subject.. I was on the phone with the surgeon's office last week while he was at my house and I think he heard me on the phone with them but I don't think he knew who it was because he was in the shower  and couldnt hear the conversation. I don't want to lose his support because he's the only person I've really got to be supportive during this process but I have been acting so weird that he might just be fed up with the mood swings and everything. Should I tell him about this journey that I am about to take and get his opinion on it or should I just let it go up until time it is about to happen. I was thinking about calling him and telling him about it but he is suppose to come over tomorrow so I was thinking about telling him face to face. Anyway I am super excited about the surgery and I don't want this to get in the way of my success... Also when y'all had your last weigh in. Did you the surgeon's office send it to the insurance for approval immediately or did they wait awhile before they sent it off? Thanks!

There is a lot going on in your life.  Wonder if you have OTHER supportsystems to lean on other than this brand new guy in a brand new relationship.  New relationships come with their own stress - adding the weight of expecting fully committed healthy adult support from someone you recently met and with whom you have already had ups and downs seems ill advised.

Can't help with your questions about weights because that was not a requirement of my surgeon or insurance.

No. I have NO support My family never really supported me about this... they kind of think its dumb. I mean i know it might be alot to ask but we done been through a lot of stuff including a pregnancy scare like the first week we knew each other but i know where you are coming from. Its probably

Not a good idea