Surgeon will be lengthening my common channel...

 That's a good call to go back to your surgeon.  There are very few who truly understand our new anatomy.  I would trust his judgement above all else, but consider revision as a last resort.

This must be really rough on you with little kid/s around to care for. Good luck, don't give up.

 Thank you! Yes, It's very difficult sadly...hopefully things will be better soon!