Hello,Just an update!

 Hello to all! sorry i have been missing in action I hope everyone is well! Just wanted to say Merry Christmas and a very Happy new year to all! I have been thru hell and back,and trying to muttle thru,My husband has decided he wanted to have several affairs on me and like a fool,i forgave way to many times,but this last time has broke me in half and i am now alone and trying to get my life back on track!  I am almost 4 yrs out,gained about 10 pounds back but i am ok with it,I was looking pretty sickly and its ok,I havent been beating myself up with the gain ,I am faithful with my vitamins and do alot of walking and daily prayer and with my beautiful kids getting me thru all this mess my life has become i know i will get thru! The sad part about all of this is I worked so hard to make my DS work for me that my soon to be ex has taken with a very large woman,Gee guess he wanted me to be the big girl i was,Oh well such is life! Hope everyone has a wonderful holiday!

Merry Christmas to you as well.

Sounds like you are well on your way now to a much better life. Stay strong and never settle for all you deserve!!

Thank You Tina i am sure trying my hardest!

(((hugs))) I'm so sorry you're going through this mess. You and your kids have a good holiday in spite of the jerk.

--gina

 Thank you Gina,Not gonna let him ruin my times with my kids!

A lot of us lost more than weight with our WLS.  Come over to the Singles Forum and meet a bunch of us WLS Singles!!!

~Becky

 Why thank you i just may do that!

 I am sorry to hear about your husband. Nothing makes me more angry than a cheating spouse. You deserve better, but life is not fair. You are a beautiful woman and things WILL get better!  Merry Christmas!  You will be in my prayers!

 Thank yo uso much! Same to you

Merry Christams, sweetie! So sorry you're going through all this. HUGS


Ruby