Lightheaded, dizzy, knees-buckled...

If he doesn't die of that testosterone poisoning and the stupidity it induces, he just might make it.

 True...

I feel for the both of you. I can't imagine both me and my husband going through this major surgery at the same time. It was so awful and it can't imagine it times 2.  You both need to support each other and it looks like you are. It will get better!!!