Bullying and Newbies

Ahhhh that almost makes me feel ass warm and fuzzy on the inside.  Another domestic abuser becomes compost...lovely!

I can't do anything for the voices in your head. That is YOUR problem, not mine. I am not your mother and I was worried about you. Your history of not taking a damned bit of advice from anyone here is such that I felt it necessary to get your attention.

I see you got over your tantrum. Whatever.

Yep, I'm over it...I'm a true redhead, quick to ignite but I burn quickly as well.

Don't be surprised when you get called out again when you act like an idiot. If you're going to equate me with your abuser mommy rather than hear ME, you might as well use your block button right now and leave it that way.

You are a smart cookie.  Good post.  Much appreciated.  I hope people will follow that advice.

~Becky

 I agree.  This is a message board, and all we have for emphasis and to make our point are the words we choose.  In real life, we can use other visual and verbal clues - we can raise our voice, we can look shocked, etc.  Here, all we have are words and they have to be used for emphasis.

There is a big difference between writing something like "I'm concerned you should go to the doctor now" and "For God's sake get your ass to a doctor now before you kill yourself".  It's for emphaissi.

For me, too, I sometimes comment strongly on other people's posts even if I think they're beyond listening, understanding, or wanting the info.  What we write here is archived for anyone to read and search, and I hold hope that even if the OP doesnt want to hear the advice that it's helping some lurker, somewhere.

Mostly true, but I swear because it's fun. And I'm immature.

There was a study a little while ago into why people cuss. You know what they came up with? Because it made people feel better.

Sometimes it really does. And the dog clearly likes it, since he always wags when I talk to him in sentences with every other word being an obscenity.

I hope you gave the fuzzy butted one a treat for Thanksgiving. Bear just loves having lots of relatives show up, but I'm not sure if it's because he is just an attention ***** or because he has hopes we will drop slabs of meat and cheese as we mill about. He does love babies - they are just little slot machines paying out snacks nonstop.

Fuzzy Butt is off of human food as he has put on some weight since we have been here but he did get a 2 foot long bully stick for the holiday. He is so funny when anyone is eating. He just sits there like "I'm such a handsome dog. You should just give me all of your food."