Pumpkin wants opinions...and for opinions, the SOURCE is...

the DS board.  Go tell her what you think.  (And then be ready to go back for the additional parts of this question.)

www.obesityhelp.com/forums/amos/4460515/Part-One-of-a-Three- Part-Question-Read-this-first/

Do you know where in Cali she lives?
I might be able to tailor my answer to her depending on the reputation of her District Attorney and ICE Departments.  (Or not.)