Driving My DH nuts!!
The part that's driving my DH nutso is that each time I get something to eat and he's around I ask if he wants some. This is just the way I was brought up. We didn't have a lot but our family was good when it came to food. If you walked in the door at dinner we'd hand you a plate. This is the reason MOST of my family members are obese.
My DH was NOT raised this way. They had 3 squares and a snack. He was expected to eat what he was given, clean his plate and that was that. *eye roll*
His family is NOT obese. BUT he has to keep a tight grip on what he eats or within a few days he's gained 10 lbs, which BTW melt right off when he pulls in the reins. *Lucky bastage*
Guess I don't really have a question, just sharing. I know my husband is going nutty with this. I'm really trying to just get me a snack and move on. I guess my granny's ways have worn off and I feel guilty that I'm eating in front of people.
Yeah, I know, no need to drive, I'm nutso already! Thanks for letting me babble!!
Ruby
tazmaddy34 is my HW/SW/CW/GW 346/335/183/150 5'4.25"
my friends and family laugh at how often I eat - there always seems to be something in my mouth or I'm thinking about eating lol'
I go from not at all interested in food to absolutely ravenous in minutes and when i am hungry , I really HAVE to eat, RIGHT NOW lol
He'll get used to it otherwise just tell him that you;re not going to offer anymore but he will need to speak up when he wants a tase of your yummy Ds snack lol
Hugs
Yorkie xx
Had a band in 2005 at 280lbs, had band removed and DS done on Jan 22nd 08 at 220lbs in Spain, now 135lbs and a size 4!! Happy as a Clam!!Dontcha love the DS? It's the best tool around!!
What is so funny is I can be eating a meal or have just finished one and say, hummm what do we want for the next meal. I'm horrible!!
Life is good!
Ruby
tazmaddy34 is my HW/SW/CW/GW 346/335/183/150 5'4.25"
When I was losing, if I got the hungry days a few days in a row, it usually meant that I was due to drop some weight!
I just read Chris's reply to you too and it occurred to me that if we all went on a road trip together, we'd need a mini van to follow behind us just with supplies lol
Yorkie x
Had a band in 2005 at 280lbs, had band removed and DS done on Jan 22nd 08 at 220lbs in Spain, now 135lbs and a size 4!! Happy as a Clam!!Dontcha love the DS? It's the best tool around!!
Chris
HW/225 - 5'1" ~ SW/205/after surgery 215 ~ CW/145~ BMI-25.8~Normal BMI 132 ~DS Dr Rabkin 4/17/08
Plastics in Monterrey - See Group on OH Dr Sauceda Jan 13, 2011
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And yes, men are bastages in that they can cut one thing out and lose 500 pounds in a week. ******s!!!!
You keep going. You're on the right track. When you're hungry, eat! I keep thinking about killing my metabolism when my stomach says it's actually hungry and I don't feed it vs head hunger. There is a definite difference now. I do wish the actual hunger would slow a bit as I've eaten most of North America this week and it's only Tuesday!
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I was cooking for my DS party this weekend, had just had lunch about an hour prior. I was feeling a little hungry. Looking in the fridge to get mayo, mustard and relish for deviled eggs I find a small container. Too my surprise it was pork loin chops I had fried 2 days before. I pulled out 2 and started chowin down, yep cold. My MIL walks out of the bathroom and says, what the hell are you eating now? Stopped to think about it and I had been snacking all day. I cheesed real big and said, wanna bite, and waved it in front of her nose. She can be a real winch sometimes anywho. She's my DH's step mom. She's just a mean person. I love waving food in her face. She's so anal about "dieting". Doesn't like that I had WLS, that kinda ****!
Ruby
tazmaddy34 is my HW/SW/CW/GW 346/335/183/150 5'4.25"