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Topic: RE: Weekend Roll Call
Good Sunday Morning Delaware! This weekend finds me going several different directions but in an organized way. The past week was one of those roller coaster times, when my eating was more or less out of control. I just kept eating and eating until I realized I was not doing it for the sake of hunger but to distract myself from the emotional ups and downs of the week. I mean, I ate Oreo's---I ate chips, way too much bread (sandwiches, hot dog buns, etc.), and not getting enough fluids. I even had some M&M's. I oughta be smacked. At least I see what I am doing and put a stop to it. I haven't gained any weight but that's no excuse. Back to helathier eating.
The grandkids are pretty much moved in. It hit home yesterday when their dad sorted through the bags and baskets of clothes and piled them by kid. They will bring a dresser over today so I can get the piles put away. Sarah and I will go to Georgetown later in the week to get the guardianship process started. She and her husband have been all over Sussex County looking for work so they can get back into their house and on their feet. There's just nothing substantial out here. Part of my roller coaster ride was quitting my job so I can care for these kids. THAT was HARD, since I just started a month ago. I was very discontent with the work environment and probably would have left anyways but to do it without notice is not my way. I had no choice once the weather got too cold for the babies to stay in the house. There's no lights or water.
Another emotional issue was that of being told that it is most likey I have rheumatoid arthritis. I so did NOT want this to happen to me. I had my hands x-rayed and even the x-ray tech said the difficulty I had posing my hands and fingers for the pictures was a classic sign of RA. Such simple poses and I could barely do it. My hands are alot weaker than I thought they were and it hurt to hold them in those positions even for a few seconds. I just keep seeing my mom's hands and feet and how they have become so crippled over the last 10 years, all gnarled and twisted with excess bony growths and the like. She is in constant pain. I just didn't want to go there. Blood was drawn to check for Lyme, Lupus, RA and other inflammatory disease, and another urine culture for this stupid chronic issue I am having. Then there's my car, sitting in the yard, undrivable. Ed will look at it today and hopefully it is something simple like spark plugs or something. There's not much money to work with for car repairs right now.
With Ed working at Perdue, we have tons of chicken in the freezer so I have to be creative. Last night I made a chicken noodle casserole with peas and carrots, and topped it with crushed Cheez-Its that I added some garlic and butter to. It was really good, and even Dakota ate some. She's just 9 months old and I pureed some for her....she loved it. Riley had two plates of it. He was grubbin' on it. We will eat the rest for lunch today. I'm going to make a pot of chili this coming week and will most likely put pulled chicken in it!
I sure hope this coming week goes better for me. I already need some down time and the kids have only been here a week or so. Sarah and Jason are here at night to bathe them and get them to bed, so that helps. They know I can't squat by the tub that way. I just hope I can do this grandkids thing...could use some prayers.
The grandkids are pretty much moved in. It hit home yesterday when their dad sorted through the bags and baskets of clothes and piled them by kid. They will bring a dresser over today so I can get the piles put away. Sarah and I will go to Georgetown later in the week to get the guardianship process started. She and her husband have been all over Sussex County looking for work so they can get back into their house and on their feet. There's just nothing substantial out here. Part of my roller coaster ride was quitting my job so I can care for these kids. THAT was HARD, since I just started a month ago. I was very discontent with the work environment and probably would have left anyways but to do it without notice is not my way. I had no choice once the weather got too cold for the babies to stay in the house. There's no lights or water.
Another emotional issue was that of being told that it is most likey I have rheumatoid arthritis. I so did NOT want this to happen to me. I had my hands x-rayed and even the x-ray tech said the difficulty I had posing my hands and fingers for the pictures was a classic sign of RA. Such simple poses and I could barely do it. My hands are alot weaker than I thought they were and it hurt to hold them in those positions even for a few seconds. I just keep seeing my mom's hands and feet and how they have become so crippled over the last 10 years, all gnarled and twisted with excess bony growths and the like. She is in constant pain. I just didn't want to go there. Blood was drawn to check for Lyme, Lupus, RA and other inflammatory disease, and another urine culture for this stupid chronic issue I am having. Then there's my car, sitting in the yard, undrivable. Ed will look at it today and hopefully it is something simple like spark plugs or something. There's not much money to work with for car repairs right now.
With Ed working at Perdue, we have tons of chicken in the freezer so I have to be creative. Last night I made a chicken noodle casserole with peas and carrots, and topped it with crushed Cheez-Its that I added some garlic and butter to. It was really good, and even Dakota ate some. She's just 9 months old and I pureed some for her....she loved it. Riley had two plates of it. He was grubbin' on it. We will eat the rest for lunch today. I'm going to make a pot of chili this coming week and will most likely put pulled chicken in it!
I sure hope this coming week goes better for me. I already need some down time and the kids have only been here a week or so. Sarah and Jason are here at night to bathe them and get them to bed, so that helps. They know I can't squat by the tub that way. I just hope I can do this grandkids thing...could use some prayers.
KathyG
Topic: RE: Weekend Roll Call
Hi Joanne,
I am done day 1, it was very easy. I made this AWESOME pumpkin & sausage soup from the 5DPT book. It was out of this world, Doug and his mom and sister loved it too. It was easy to make and will be my dinner again tomorrow night. I am finishing my day out with a Healthwise banana pudding. I got in all my liquids, protein and supplements. The exercise thing is not going well though, I am in contast pain in my back & neck so exercising is not good. I did get outside today though, walked to the mailbox, walked around the yard and picked up the sticks that the wind blew down the other day. I am proud of myself, I knew I could do it, but was worried about the 2 days of liquids. I even baked Doug some sugar free oatmeal raisin cookies tonight and didn't have any. That was quite an accomplishment.
Tomorrow is church and then coming home and cooking an egg & spinach bake, again from the book. I did go on a job interview on Friday and the guy really seemed interested in hiring me and I was really interested in working there, so I am praying that the jobs comes through.
Have a great weekend.
I am done day 1, it was very easy. I made this AWESOME pumpkin & sausage soup from the 5DPT book. It was out of this world, Doug and his mom and sister loved it too. It was easy to make and will be my dinner again tomorrow night. I am finishing my day out with a Healthwise banana pudding. I got in all my liquids, protein and supplements. The exercise thing is not going well though, I am in contast pain in my back & neck so exercising is not good. I did get outside today though, walked to the mailbox, walked around the yard and picked up the sticks that the wind blew down the other day. I am proud of myself, I knew I could do it, but was worried about the 2 days of liquids. I even baked Doug some sugar free oatmeal raisin cookies tonight and didn't have any. That was quite an accomplishment.
Tomorrow is church and then coming home and cooking an egg & spinach bake, again from the book. I did go on a job interview on Friday and the guy really seemed interested in hiring me and I was really interested in working there, so I am praying that the jobs comes through.
Have a great weekend.
Deanna
Christ in you the hope of Glory!!!!
Topic: In search of a support group in Wilmington, DE!!
HI -
I live in West Chester, PA and work in Glen Mills, PA so I would love to find a support group in Wilmington, DE. I am having RNY surgery on 1/8/09 and can use all the support I can get in the area.
Thanks
Iman
Topic: New Beginnings / Smyrna Meetings Canceled
With much regret, I am going to have to stop our monthly support group meetings. Unfortunately, my work schedule has changed that I am now required to work some nights. My husband is also attending night classes on Monday & Thursday. With two kids, in sports, my life is getting a bit crazy... just not enough time in the day to get it all done.
I had been working with Christiana Care for quite sometime to get some classes (such as those held at PMRI) held at the new Smyrna Medical Center conference room. They too have the problem with getting someone to commit to a schedule.
I will continue to work with Christiana Care in hopes to get a monthly meeting again as before... If anyone has any ideas, please let me know.
Thanks for the friendships over the past 6 years!
Ginger Barkley
Topic: Weekend Roll Call
Good Morning Delaware and other supporters ! I must say I am happy this morning for I got my car fixed and am ready to roll. I have a board meeting to go to today for Grandparent's United. Then I am taking Robert to Byler's to get his ingredients for a candy bar he has to make for Excell at school. We will work on that project this afternoon. He has to make it, name it and give it special packaging. I can't wait to see the finished project. What is everyone's plans for this weekend ? What are we cooking ? I have bean soup in the crock pot. Have a good weekend. See you lighter. Joanne
Topic: RE: HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!
Amy, You look great Girl !!! I just know 2009 is the year for us in the WLS Community. New things coming along. We will share whatever and as you say hopefully more ups then downs. HAPPY NEW YEAR ! See you lighter. Joanne
Topic: RE: Wednesday Roll Call
Deana, They do not have the Laurel meeting anymore. Is Cambridge far from you ? That is the only one I know in Maryland. Check the OH board in Maryland for support groups. I am starting our Christian Weightloss support group back at the Church Monday night. This will help me alot. We do the First Place Program. It is really good. You can get their books at any christian store. They are workbooks with music too. You would Love this program. All Bible based. We stopped When Bob got ill because I could not run the group due to his medical needs. It is now time for me to do the right thing for myself and get back to all my groups. You know how I love them. See You lighter. Joanne
Topic: RE: Today is the Day
Lots of good luck. I also started back on track today. I have been eating lots of cookies and candy also and even though I have not gained any weight back, my sugars are out of control and I don't feel good. I have been lack in taking my meds for my diabetes the last couple of weeks and it caught up to me. I will not let a month of craziness screw up the rest of my future. Back to the drawing board and all the good habits I know how to use.
I will keep you posted too.
I will keep you posted too.
Topic: RE: Today is the Day
Deana, Best of luck to you getting back on track. You can do it ! I finally got my car fixed so I am starting back at the gym on Monday. I am not coming home until I stop there. No excuses ! I am also going back to basics. See you lighter. Joanne
Topic: RE: Any Southern Delaware DSers out there?
Marge, I have sent you a message about Debbie's group. As far as my group , you just show up. Our first group for 2009 is Wednesday January 7th at 7pm. Hope to see you there. See you lighter. Joanne