Surgery #4 Scheduled Wednesday!

Hi! I just wanted to update everyone on my condition. I got a phone call this am from Dr. Wynn. After speaking with Dr. Irgau, it has been decided to go in and do another surgery on me. This time they will NOT be doing laposcopic, they are going to open me up. They are going to do a revision, which constists of taking the small intestine and placing it behind my colon and then tack everything in place. It should take about 5 hours. There is no guarentees that this will be the end of the pain, but lets hope so. They think there is still a twist in the small intestine some where. I have been in too much pain for too long, for it to be from my other surgery a month ago. At first, I was NO I am not going to do this, I just want to wait it out. BUT, then after taking the emotions out of it and looking at the risk of loosing my small intestines for life and having a bag-surgery looks better. So I will start a clear liquid diet on Monday for the prep, just like you newbies. I think for me the worst part isn't the surgery, it is being cut OPEN. I really don't like that idea-AT ALL. I have had six plus hours of crying, praying and talking about all this. People have suggested about getting a second opion--HONESTLY--I don't need a second opion, Dr. W and Dr. I are the very best of the best. I don't have any doubts that this is the right step I should take, it is just a shock! I know the way the Dr.s work, I know their background and degrees....there is NO ONE else in this world that I would trust then our doctors. There are the best of the best...I truely mean that with all of my heart. I have met other bariatric surgeons in South Dakota, Iowa, Texas, Hershey, Phoenixville, Philadelphia and South Delaware, NONE of them compare to what we have here. So please continue praying for me and a healthy speedy recovery, as I am a little worried with this being my fourth major surgery this year! I am so grateful for you and appreciate all the love and support you give me. I honestly I don't think I could have gone this far with out each and everyone of you! I really and truely mean that! THANKS! ps. I will be at Saturday's PMRI meeting. I am so glad there is a meeting this weekend. I need it!!!! LOVE AND HUGS TO ALL Nicki

Aww Nicki, I will be praying for you. I'm sure emotionally it's pure hell, but you can get through it and all will turn out ok. I'm glad you thought the consequences through, and I agree about our docs, the best. So keep that thought close at hand. take care dear. T

Oh Nicki! I agree you are in good hands. I will be thinking of you and wishing you well. Dianne

Hi Nicki You will continue to be in my prayers. You are such an inspiration to us all. Hugs and prayers your way. Rose

Hey Nicki, OMG!! I am sadden by the news of a 4th surgery. But if this means opening you up to find the problem...by all means. Especially, if our little Nicki will be pain free AND her happy go lucky self again. Hang in there girl I know it's tough but better and healthier days are ahead. And of course I got you all prayed up....I am always here if you need me remember that my ANGEL! (((HUGS)))

Nicki, I hope this surgery gets you done and fixed. They must be thinking of naming a wing at Christiana after you. Are you doing all of these surgeries just to avoid exercise? Enough kidding, you know you are my inspiration on this journey, so you need to get yourself well and pain free. Your one of the originals. Look forward to seeing you tomorrow. ps. I heard there was a ban on you and Elissa sitting in the same row at the PMRI meetings. Something about being entirely too disruptive. But that is another story... I certainly know that I wouldn't be where I am without your support and encouragement. Your bud, Rob

They say third times the charm, in your case maybe it's the 4th. Wishing you the speediest of recovery's. Linda

Nicki, Please count on my continued prayers. My heart is aching for you. I sure hope this resolves the problem/pain. Hugs, Tammy

Wow Nicki....you have really been through it. I pray that this time will ease your pain. I agree that you are in the best hands with Dr's Wynn and Irgau. I will be sure to keep you in my prayers! ((hugs)) Carla

Hi Nicki! I've been away from the message board for several weeks so I didn't know about your pain and pending surgery. Yikes! I pray that all is well with you and that God will make this the last surgery that you'll need. You'vee been through a lot and I admire your courage and positiive attitude (although I'd be lying if I didn't admit that I've decided to postpone my surgery because of the "follow-up surgeries that folks have gone through). I've cancelled my surgery for 10/26. I've moved the date to January 2005. I've been this size for 10 years so I can wait a couple of months to see if I start feeling more "sure" about the surgery. Take care of yourself! Keep you family and friends close! They will help you get through these difficult times!