I'm a Newbie.. Just poppin in!
Welcome to the DE boards Toni,
This is the place for questions and answers. I had Dr. Irgau for my RNY surgery back in 2003. He and the other surgeons at CHRIAS (and the staff) are excellent. Being nervous is a good thing, because at least you are thinking about how dramatic a change you are about to undertake. Don't worry about the pain too much, they will help you out if you need it, but most people do not even take the pain medication upon arriving home after surgery.
Keep educating yourself by attending some of the meetings at PMRI and other support meetings. Elissa posts the meetings monthly on this board, but there is usually about one every week. Also take advantage of the nutritionists and start thinking about exercise. It's never too early.
Rob