OT - Gram lost battle today

Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. You should be very proud of yourself and Tim for being there when Gram needed you the most. And in future years you will look back on them and realize how lucky you were to be able to spend the last months of her life with her. I know she is proud of you and will watch over you from heaven. I will keep you and Tim in my prayers. God bless. Deanna

Deanna, Thank you so much for your kind words. I am glad you are doing better. I already know I was very lucky to have her for the short time that I did....It was not all bad! Debbie

Everyone else put it better. Sorry for your loss. You are truly blessed for having this time to spend with her.

Dee, Thank you!

So sorry Debbie. Deepest Sympathy to you all. The above posters have said so much. You were lucky to have her, she was lucky to have you. It's one of life's balances. Stay strong. Please post, even if to just vent how you are feeling. You and Tim are truly very special people. Dianne

Dianne, I am sad right now but I guess that is expected. I had a nasty experience with her Dr's receptionist telling me he was not going to sign her death certificate and well that would have put us in a bind.....I didn't understand why he wouldn't and she refused to call undertaker and made me do it. I was so mad that happened to me and I was so off guard that I just said fine I will take care of it. The undertaker pursued it more and got his signature.....I was glad! I was so upset that even at death someone was trying to dis her! She was always so helpful to everyone....how could she be treated like that. We were going to report him to AMA becasue of this but since the certificate is signed I will let sleeping dogs lie! Debbie

Hi Debbie, So sorry to hear about your loss. I too couldnt have said it better than the other posters. Right now is hard and the time will come when you can look back and laugh over the things that you've had the opportunity to experience with your grandmother since she came to stay with you. I too took my grandfather for 2 1/2 years before he passed away and now we can belly laugh at things he said and did. What wonderful memories to have! Take Care...Sharon

Sharon....Thank you so much for your kind words and experiences....I am sure a few years from now I will be telling those Grammy stories too! Debbie

Debbie, My love to you and your family. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you. *hugs* Gigee

Can you make me a martini please? Thank you so much for being such a good friend. Hugs back at ya! Debbie