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Topic: RE: Been a while since I have been here.
Best wishes to you and yours on your new arrival. A son, how wonderful. We have 3 sons, all grown up. As a mom, you sure are in for some Special times with your son. As he keeps getting older, you'll see how more and more you'll enjoy him and the fun you'll have. God's blessings to you. Being a mother is one awesome gift.
Topic: RE: Been a while since I have been here.
71 lb lost pre-op Abdominoplasty & Panniculectomy Dec 4th, 2009
Congratulations Kathy. Enjoy your new son!
Nancy
Nancy
71 lb lost pre-op Abdominoplasty & Panniculectomy Dec 4th, 2009
Topic: RE: Frustrated with my doctors
Whenever I get my bloodwork done I make sure to let the lab tech know to cc me a copy of the results, either via snail-mail or fax. I have to sign a consent form every time but I get my entire lab results at the same time my surgeon/PCP gets them. Short answer - be pro-active and take full responsibility for your health by becoming as informed and knowledgeable as you can. Best of luck. Maureen
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: RE: Frustrated with my doctors
You kill me...
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: RE: Revision Surgeons in CT?
Lynne, this is troubling for me to read; you and I (and some others reading these posts) are long-termers and things have changed since we had our surgeries. The perception that "we didn't learn our lesson" is precisely the issue at stake here! WLS surgeons should not automatically blame the patient for weight regain any more than they should take credit for the weight loss! Do they perform a surgery that facilitates weight loss? Absolutely. But it is the PATIENT who learns how to get fit, strong, healthy in the process. That is the ultimate success. Of course, over the years life happens - kids, jobs, relationships fail, any number of things happen that will throw a curve at that success, and our weight will fluctuate depending on how well we cope with those cir****tances. But the bottom line is the physiological consequences of the initial surgery CHANGE. Our internal guts CHANGE and THIS is what causes the regain as much or more than any other factor. WLS surgeons MUST be on top of their game in terms of long-term changes to what they do in the original surgery, and then share that knowledge with us as we move farther and farther away from that original surgery. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!! Can you do things differently? Of course, but your body has changed in order to do what it is programed to do - keep fat and nutrients in your system to stay healthy and alive. The other piece is we have a genetic factor (any person who has been significantly overweight for most of their lives and have not been able to lose weight despite strong efforts has a genetic disposition to being fat) - so our demons are REAL. The fight is tremendous to keep the weight off and any doctor who does not recognize all of these pieces is NOT DOING HIS JOB!!! I want to meet you. I'll be going into the city a couple of times this month, email me and let's swap contact info. Please don't ever think again that your regain is your fault. Start from there. Take care, Lynne. Maureen
Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.
Topic: RE: Revision Surgeons in CT?
I would love to talk to you more. I don't even see Dr. Aranow any more. I see his assistant. I remember when I was 180 I said I was happy with this weight and thought I would never even be there. He told me to lose more because I would would gain at least 20 pounds back. I hate that he is always right since I have gained 30 back. I also remember how much he stressed he would only do surgery once because if you gained the weight back you didn't learn your lesson! This will be a forever problem for which I do not have the answer. Do you go to support groups? I have trouble going to the Monday night group, I have 3 kids who all have activities, homework, etc. I am interested in the Saturday group because I think I could pull that one off. Any ideas????
Thanks for listening, Lynne
Thanks for listening, Lynne
Topic: RE: LIPO (Long Island Post Ops) invites you!!!!!
Thanks Maryellen.... I will be there.... both events!
Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Founder-Central Connecticut Cares
Founder-Central Connecticut Cares
Topic: RE: Support Groups
Hi, My name is Dan. I addition to the Middlesex Hospital Support Groups, I meet with a small group of folks that meet once a month in Middletown. We meet on the second Saturday of each month at 10:30AM. for more info please see: http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/CCCares/tab,0/page,1/#my_gr oups_main:1
Thanks
Thanks
Obesity Help Support Group Leader
Founder-Central Connecticut Cares
Founder-Central Connecticut Cares
Topic: LIPO (Long Island Post Ops) invites you!!!!!
LIPO's next scheduled physical activity is on
WHEN: FRIDAY, 12/17 9:00PM-WHENEVER
WHERE: LIZARD LOUNGE
4589 Sunrise Highway
Bohemia, NY
Join LIPO as we ring in the New Year...a little bit early........
The Energy Express will Rock in the "New Year" with LIPO
2011 is going to be a great year for LIPO so let's start it a little bit early.
LIPO & The Energy Express...what a great way to ring in the NEW YEAR !!
RSVP on Facebook:
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LIPO's next scheduled meeting is on
WHEN: Tuesday, December 21 · 6:30pm - 9:00pm
WHERE: Sayville Public Library
88 Greene Ave
Sayville, NY
RSVP on Facebook
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WHEN: FRIDAY, 12/17 9:00PM-WHENEVER
WHERE: LIZARD LOUNGE
4589 Sunrise Highway
Bohemia, NY
Join LIPO as we ring in the New Year...a little bit early........
The Energy Express will Rock in the "New Year" with LIPO
2011 is going to be a great year for LIPO so let's start it a little bit early.
LIPO & The Energy Express...what a great way to ring in the NEW YEAR !!
RSVP on Facebook:
www.facebook.com/event.php
___________________________________________________________________________
LIPO's next scheduled meeting is on
WHEN: Tuesday, December 21 · 6:30pm - 9:00pm
WHERE: Sayville Public Library
88 Greene Ave
Sayville, NY
RSVP on Facebook
www.facebook.com/event.php
Maryellen
To visit LIPO (Long Island Post Ops) bariatric support group website click here: www.liponation.org
"WLS is a journey, not a destination (don't get comfortable) ... it's a road that we must travel daily to succeed". Faith Thomas
visit my blog at theessenceofmaryellen.com/
To visit LIPO (Long Island Post Ops) bariatric support group website click here: www.liponation.org
"WLS is a journey, not a destination (don't get comfortable) ... it's a road that we must travel daily to succeed". Faith Thomas
visit my blog at theessenceofmaryellen.com/
Topic: RE: Revision Surgeons in CT?
You're welcome. Just go get this fixed. You have worked too hard to not get this figured out.
I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.
Baby 7-09
Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10