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Richbehr
on 3/17/09 11:30 pm, edited 3/17/09 11:30 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
Topic: RE: SUPPORT GROUP QUESTION
Sounds great!!!!
Let me make a phone call and I'll get back to you when the next one is and the topic.
I work in Rocky Hill, maybe we can meet up for dinner first depending on the time?
I met Dr. Tishler at the Walk for Obesity and he seems like a really nice guy.

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

reenieb
on 3/17/09 10:50 pm
RNY on 03/08/04 with
Topic: RE: SUPPORT GROUP QUESTION
Thanks Rich, maybe we can coordinate a group to go to one of Dr. Tishler's meetings? Could I impose on you to ask you to post the specifics - when the meetings are scheduled for, where, what time - I would love to join you there! Would anyone else like to join Rich and me for a Tishler SG meeting? Maureen
Richbehr
on 3/17/09 10:21 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
Topic: RE: Newbie here-introducing myself
Welcome and hold on for the ride of your life. Remember to ask ANYTHNG, nothing is to stupid or dumb or personal to ask. We are all here for YOU.

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

Richbehr
on 3/17/09 10:17 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
Topic: RE: Primary Care Physicians
I've been with my PCP for over 20 years and he is the first to admit he knows nothing about WLS. I would rather have a doctor admit he knows nothing rather than to try and pretend he does. I think we as patients can help educate them so they can help others.

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

Richbehr
on 3/17/09 10:13 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
Topic: RE: SUPPORT GROUP QUESTION

Maureen, to be honest I feel the same way about the Middlesex support group meeetings. I get nothing out of them at all. I have heard that Dr. Tishler's group in Hartford Hospital is fantastic. Dr. Tishler even goes to it himself and they have set topics and speakers. I'm going to try that group soon. I love Dr. Aranow, but have never even seen him at one of his own support groups.

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

pepsi98
on 3/17/09 7:25 pm - Norwich, CT
Topic: RE: Now what?
On March 17, 2009 at 5:59 PM Pacific Time, Tammy M wrote:
I could never get the "sweet spot" - I would constantly get food stuck and slime - one day I could eat something - the next time the same thing would cause problems - I would get a fill that would feel right and 2 weeks later all of the sudden it was so tight I couldn't drink water. When I got pregnant I had all of the fill taken out and for some reason the band worked perfect - I finally had the sweet spot! I would eat like a 1/2 wrap sandwich and feel completely content - nothing got stuck (hardly ever- like maybe twice in the 9 months) - I only gained 20 pounds in my pregnancy - I am thankful for the band during my pregnancy - I also believe it helped me not get gestational diabetes like I had in my first pregnancy.

I know there are a lot of successful people that have had the band - and I am jealous of them. I truly wanted it to work - but after experiencing the band during pregnancy and what a great tool it was - I know it never worked the way it was supposed to work for me. The thing about the band is that it is a very individual tool and as far as I'm concerned one size does not fit all and I don't think there is any way for them to tell before hand. Perhaps, in the future they'll get better at identifying successful band candidates.

I wish you all the luck in using the tool and hope that it works out for you!!
 I always feel bad when someone isn't suited for the band.  They are so invested in it and want so badly for it to work, and sometimes it just doesn't.

Hope you find the right option for you and I also wish you the best!!
 "The Joy of the Lord is your strength."  Nehemiah 8:10


START:  330         CURRENT:  274.5 lbs         GOAL:  190          TOTAL:  55.5 lbs

 



Tammy M
on 3/17/09 10:59 am - Somers, CT
Topic: RE: Now what?
I could never get the "sweet spot" - I would constantly get food stuck and slime - one day I could eat something - the next time the same thing would cause problems - I would get a fill that would feel right and 2 weeks later all of the sudden it was so tight I couldn't drink water. When I got pregnant I had all of the fill taken out and for some reason the band worked perfect - I finally had the sweet spot! I would eat like a 1/2 wrap sandwich and feel completely content - nothing got stuck (hardly ever- like maybe twice in the 9 months) - I only gained 20 pounds in my pregnancy - I am thankful for the band during my pregnancy - I also believe it helped me not get gestational diabetes like I had in my first pregnancy.

I know there are a lot of successful people that have had the band - and I am jealous of them. I truly wanted it to work - but after experiencing the band during pregnancy and what a great tool it was - I know it never worked the way it was supposed to work for me. The thing about the band is that it is a very individual tool and as far as I'm concerned one size does not fit all and I don't think there is any way for them to tell before hand. Perhaps, in the future they'll get better at identifying successful band candidates.

I wish you all the luck in using the tool and hope that it works out for you!!
Warm Regards - Tammy -
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sel
on 3/17/09 10:16 am - colchester, CT
Topic: RE: Newbie here-introducing myself

Welcome! How exciting for you. Beginning this journey can be a little overwhelming but before you know it you will have gotten all your pre-op appointments done and you will be on your way.

Wishing you all the best on your WLS journey.

Check in often and ask questions and I am sure someone will gladly offer some info/advice.

Sher

pepsi98
on 3/17/09 7:29 am - Norwich, CT
Topic: RE: Now what?
On March 4, 2009 at 10:53 AM Pacific Time, Tammy M wrote:
Thank you Nancy - I was so sure the band was the tool for me - but I was wrong - it was not good for me at all - it only worked right when I was pregnant! Dr. R. thought that was strange - he said he'd never heard of that before....

Thanks for the confirmation that Dr. R is a good doctor - he is a very confident man that is for sure - and his office is run very well from what I've experienced so far!
I went from a bypass to a band...I had gained all my weight back and in December I had a band put over old bypass.  My weight loss is slow, but that's ok.  Why do you say that the band wasn't the tool for you?  What went wrong with it?
 "The Joy of the Lord is your strength."  Nehemiah 8:10


START:  330         CURRENT:  274.5 lbs         GOAL:  190          TOTAL:  55.5 lbs

 



pepsi98
on 3/17/09 7:22 am - Norwich, CT
Topic: RE: Primary Care Physicians
On March 17, 2009 at 9:39 AM Pacific Time, JustJoie wrote:
I'm just curious how you all feel about your primary care dr's both before and after surgery.  My PCP is going on maternity leave and is part of a large practice, Hartford Medical Group.  I'm not crazy about the Dr's there but I can always get an appt. when I need one and they have eve. and weekend appts so that's cool. 

But, they don't seem to know ANYTHING about WLS or patient care after the fact.  I'm considering looking for a new Dr. but not even sure how to begin to look for one that's familiar with post-op WLS life. 

So, the challenge, if you choose to accept it my fellow nutmegers, is to tell us about your PCP Dr. and whether or not you think they're going to be a good fit for your post-op WLS life.  Why or why not? 

Thanks!  Joie
Mine is a good fit...she knows how hard and long I have struggled and she is good about making sure I get the correct labs etc.
 "The Joy of the Lord is your strength."  Nehemiah 8:10


START:  330         CURRENT:  274.5 lbs         GOAL:  190          TOTAL:  55.5 lbs

 



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