I think you should talk to Dr Aranow again. The nurse said he was likely to recomend the gastric bypass this is the nurses opion not Dr A.s you have gone this far with him I would discuss these new test results with him. The nurse said the exact same thing to my friend .when she talked to Dr A. he had no problem going forward with the band. Don't jump ship so quickly.

Thank you Kathy.. I try to remain positive in everything I do.. LOL... have to laugh.
 
I think if I didn't have faith & pure stubbornness over everything that has taken place to me this past 1 1/2 years I'd have given up the ship by now.

I do believe everything happens for a reason & purpose...today the tears did happen.. not a "woe is me" pity party.. more ticked off at the situation.  

I know I'll come out on top.. this time it'll take a bit longer that's all.   I'm all ready stir crazy & need to keep myself busy.. cleaned the bathroom.. went to the gym earlier... & will eventually start attacking a 4-year old resume. 

Some of my former collegues have reached out to me in a positive manner & are not happy with the decision that was made by my former GM... that made me feel good that at least I made a difference while I was in my position.
 
This too will pass & I believe doors are going to open up for me when the timing is right & I am physically & emotionally ready to take on a new employment journey. 

In the meantime..going to focus on me for a few weeks & be selfish.. go to the gym.. get the work outs I want.. take walks.. a few naps... meet up with a good friend who I haven't seen in ages & reconnect...make a nice dinner for the hubby & son.. things I haven't been able to do..with all the hustle of my former job & my health.

I need to step back & count my blessings... my health is getting better.. my son is a GOOD kid...hubby puts up with me ...LOL...what more can a gal ask for?

Hugs,
Mickey 

Hi Laura -
I had my surgery with Dr. Duffy and can attest that he is excellent and his reputation is beyond reproach.  I had my surgery on a Thursday morning and went home Friday afternoon.  I was so happy he let me go home because I was soooo much more comfortable in my own bed.  He is a stickler about exercise, and he is right, but you still have to work up to what he recommends.  I have been doing the treadmill every day and adding 5 minutes a week, so I'm approaching his recommended 60 minutes per day. 
Good Luck and rest assured you are in good hands!

Dianna

Where are you and who have you tried? Have you looked at the "Find a Surgeon" section and gone from there?

Have you tried discussing the sleeve operation with Dr. Aranow?  Even if he does not perform it, he should be familiar with the procedure and be able to advise you.  I do know Dr. Bell's practice is an extremely busy one ( I had my RNY with his partner, Dr. Duffy ) so I can understand why they do not have time for individual consultations.  But there are many other resources for information to assist you in making your decision.  Dr. Bell has a stellar reputation, so if you do decide after doing research that the sleeve is right for you, then you will be in excellent hands with Dr. Bell.
Also - has your husband gone with you to any of your visits with Dr. Aranow?  His concerns are understandable, but if he could meet the surgeon and discuss his concerns, then he might not be as reluctant to support you with the RNY.  My husband was also apprehensive about the RNY  (I decided against the band for the same reasons you did), but after meeting with Dr. Duffy he felt alot more comfortable with the whole thing.