Mickey
Hey Tammy...
Things have been so topsy turvey... Good news.. GOT A JOB! Started just about 2 weeks ago.. hours.. pay... location.. PERFECT.. No longer in management.. just managing myself.. it's WONDERFUL.. lots to learn..
Moving out of my house this Wednesday into an Apt. with my son. It's so pretty.. a little more than I want to spend.. but it's beautiful.. safe.. clean..& local... can't beat that.. plus get to keep my kitty.
Filed for divorce.. we're doing a "mediated" one with just 1 attorney since we don't have "much" to split.. just the house really. .. which is on the market. Husband & I are friendly which is good.. at times he goes through his "anger/hurtful" phase of emotions... & whooo boy duck & cover on my end... very bad.
My health is ok.. my blind end.. is starting to act up.. been hurting ALOT lately.. I should go see Dr. R.. but need to wait until things settle down.. I saw him in early July & he was FREAKING out about my blood pressure.. too high (stress related.) So will see him in January unless my blind end starts to become unbearable.. I really don't want another surgery.
I'm excited & scared about new beginnings.. I'm definately done with marriage.. my 2nd go around & can't seem to get it right..so..will stay single... the WLS I do believe was a factor on my husband's side.. for me.. just a smaller package with a confidence boost thrown in.
Plan on taking a good year to re-invent myself/find myself.. between the 2 marriages I've been "married" over 20 years to 2 different people.. just about continuously.. need to breathe a bit for myself.
Hugs,
Mic
Things have been so topsy turvey... Good news.. GOT A JOB! Started just about 2 weeks ago.. hours.. pay... location.. PERFECT.. No longer in management.. just managing myself.. it's WONDERFUL.. lots to learn..
Moving out of my house this Wednesday into an Apt. with my son. It's so pretty.. a little more than I want to spend.. but it's beautiful.. safe.. clean..& local... can't beat that.. plus get to keep my kitty.
Filed for divorce.. we're doing a "mediated" one with just 1 attorney since we don't have "much" to split.. just the house really. .. which is on the market. Husband & I are friendly which is good.. at times he goes through his "anger/hurtful" phase of emotions... & whooo boy duck & cover on my end... very bad.
My health is ok.. my blind end.. is starting to act up.. been hurting ALOT lately.. I should go see Dr. R.. but need to wait until things settle down.. I saw him in early July & he was FREAKING out about my blood pressure.. too high (stress related.) So will see him in January unless my blind end starts to become unbearable.. I really don't want another surgery.
I'm excited & scared about new beginnings.. I'm definately done with marriage.. my 2nd go around & can't seem to get it right..so..will stay single... the WLS I do believe was a factor on my husband's side.. for me.. just a smaller package with a confidence boost thrown in.
Plan on taking a good year to re-invent myself/find myself.. between the 2 marriages I've been "married" over 20 years to 2 different people.. just about continuously.. need to breathe a bit for myself.
Hugs,
Mic
Mickey
Congrads. on your new job and apt. and yes even the divorce..I live in Vernon and if you would like to meet feel free to check out my profile and contact me...Right now I am home due to having a left hip replacement on Aug 11th at Hartford Hosp. and then went to Woodlake for rehab and now home. Your new body and future is going the right way and you will make it.. It does work better when the divorce goes through and you are still firends it helps and helps the children no matter what age to see their folks can still get along Good luck and have fun fixing up your new place and image..Joanneg