My mother called

I haven't spoken to my mother in just over a year. Apparently my hairdresser has a big mouth and told my mom (her hairdresser too) that I was having surgery but didn't kow what type of surgery that I was having. So she called me. I am having my hair done on 3/1/06 and she will be meeting me there and then we are going out to dinner. I'm not sure what's going to happen. Jessica

Hi jessica, maybe this will be a beginning of a new and improved relationship,sometimes it takes hard times or serious times to regain a soiled relationship..Good luck,and enjoy your dinner,,,cyndee

Hope it doesn't stress you out too much pre-op.....take care.

Hey Jessica, It will be okay sweetie, just take it slow and talk to her about your decision and see how she deals with it. It may change all you both feel about each other and you may end up stronger after all of this. Good luck and we are here for you. Hugs KimC

Hey Jessica, I hope all goes well with your Mom, Good for you going out to dinner with her!!! Talk to you soon~ xoxox Bethany

Wow Jessica - I couldn't imagine going a day without talking to my Mom let alone an entire year! I am feeling very emotional right now about parents, I just went to a funeral for my bosses mother today and because I was in the area I decided to stop by and visit my fathers' grave. It was actually the first time I went to visit his grave all by myself....... it was very quiet - no one was around, I just sort of talked to him - told him about my upcoming surgery - I had a good cry..... we were extremely close so I know it's a lot different then the relationship you have (or don't have) with your parents. However, when they are gone, that's it.... I don't know if your mother deserves to have you in her life, I don't know if she's been a good mother to you, I don't know if she's a good person or not - but if she is a good person Jessica and if you have any shred of love for her and she has any shred of love for you - then try to work it out..........If that's not the case, then I wouldn't spend too much energy on it. Unfortunately some people can have children but don't know how to be true loving parents. Best of luck with your reunion - I hope it ends up being a fulfilling and meaningful meeting for you! Warm Regards, Tammy Count Down: 13 days!

Tammy, I couldn't help but start to tear up reading what you wrote! WoW, that's all I can say... that was so very profound... *CJ*

Oh Jessica, what a nice story. Remember everything happens for a reason. Any word on if your levels are coming up??? Have you had to blood redrawn?? Let us know. Good Luck to ya! Bree