Dropped off the face of the earth

Hi everyone, I feel like I've dropped off the face of the earth. I apologize to those that I haven't been able to get back to, but I wanted to update those that think I've abandoned the message board. ;) My dad is really sick. His leukemia has kicked into high gear and he is not well. He has a biopsy on Friday and until then, we don't know what stage he is at, but his oncologist said it's not good. Apparently, his body is full of growths throughout his glands. My parents are also my kids' primary care givers while my husband and I are at work, so it's been hard trying to give my dad the attention and support he needs, raise 3 kids, and squeeze in a full time job. ;) Oh, and kids are on school vacation this week. It is HARD not to have food to fall back on as a comfort, although I have pushed the envelope this past week. We are all human. But certainly, there is no McDonald's drive thru trips for me like there used to be. I am so thankful for so many things, and I'm trying hard to focus on the positive to get through it all and help my family. But it is hard. Really hard. Love you all, Tammy 272/160

Hey Tammy, Sorry things have been so hectic for you. You just take care of your family and know we are here when you need us! Take care and hope the news you get from the doctor is good. God Bless, Julio

Hi Tammy, I went through the same thing with my Dad about 12 years ago (WOW it doesn't seem that long ago). I am so sorry you are going through this, I know how hard it is. Please just take care of yourself and know that everyone here is praying for you and your family. Let us know how things turn out. I wish you the best and you will be in my thoughts and prayers. (((((((((HUGS)))))))), Nancy K

Wow, thanks for letting us all know. Its great that you have been strong through all this and I will be praying for you and your family.

Hi Tammy - We have never "met" but I just wanted to let you know my prayers are with you and your family. It is so very hard to see a loved one suffer, you are right we are all human, don't beat yourself up. You are doing the best you can in a tough situation, there is no way you will ever slip back into being the person you once were after coming so far. My thoughts and best wishes are with you. Warm Regards from one Tammy to another! Count down: 16 days!

Hey sweetie, I am so sorry about dad, my prayers are with you and your family. I know how hard it is to have to go through this with parents. I have gone through this so many times with my dad. I hope and pray all goes well for you and if you ever need a shoulder honey I am here. You take care of yourself and that beautiful family too. Take it slow and be strong and you will get through this. We are here for you too. My love and prayers to you Hugs Kim

Hi Tammy! It is good to hear from you! Dave

you know I am here for you sweetie- if you need to ditch the kids for a day just throw them out of the car as you drive by- no problemo. I am sure kittens bunnies chickems and a room full of Barbies can amuse them for a day (well the girls- your boy can amuse himslef following Emma around)

Tammy Hon, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I sure hope that things will turn around for you.. My Husband had a severe case of Leukmia and he had to have a Bone marrow Transplant and he fought it and won so I will SAY A PRAYER for your dad. If you need a Shoulder or a Ear I am hear for you hon. Do you have my #?? If not e-mail me and I will e-mail it to you. Lisa

Hi Tammy I was wondering where are you ? and you were in my mind once a while I am keeping you in my prayers for goign through tough times and I know it is so so hard and you are full hands with your job, your kids and this week the kids have no school this week too. Let us know if you need us to support then We will support you Take care, Kathy K