Question for the Ladies...

Hi All, Guys I apologize in advance for my question... I'm finding since my surgery (4/26/05) that my "friendly visitor" has been heavier & longer than before. On average I'm going a full blown 5-days and I'm not regular where before I was like clock work. I haven't had a "visit" yet for December (I'm two weeks late) but WICKED HORMONAL UPHEAVELS...It's so bad I can't stand being around myself...CRANKY...WEEPY....LOWER BACK ACHE (feels almost like back labor...UGH!)...I know I'm having depression symptoms..& almost tempted to call my PCP to see if I can go back on Zoloft to see if it'll help. (I was on it prior to my surgery for depression) I had my tubes tied about 5 years ago...so I know it can't be the "stork" giving me a visit. LOL.. Has anyone else gone through this change with the weight loss? Did it take awhile for your clock to get "wound" back into a regular rythym? In July I'll be turning 40 (GULP!) so I'm not sure if I'm starting to hit early menopause or not?? My GYN left the state & his replacement has the bedside manner of a crockadile with a sunburn (I could think of a few other choice words) the man almost put me in the hospital a year ago...he got my blood pressure over 200 because he was "yammering" at me on my weight and how I was taking the "easy" way out of losing weight by having surgery. So I need to find a new GYN to go to. I'm also at a plateau that is driving me crazy..I'd like to lose another 10lbs but the scale isn't budging..the holiday didn't help with all the food hanging around. I could have done alot worse than I did....tried to go for smart choices. I did make a batch of sugar free chocolate chip cookies that were VERY good....however I found myself going after them a little too much for my liking...so I threw them in the garbage tonight...out of sight...out of my MOUTH...I think my PMS or whatever it is isn't helping in this area either. Thanks for listening...What we gals have to go through..the fun never stops...although lots of shopping helps! Mickey 280/170---Goal 150-160