Nerves of... Jelly!

Hi all, My surgery date with Dr. Barba is fast approaching (Dec. 19th, lap RNY) and I know this is probably very normal but I am EXTREMELY nervous. There are times when I just can't even think about the surgery - I have to put it out of my mind I get so anxious. I just had shoulder surgery on Oct. 7th and had a horrid time with pain and what not afterwards so I think I'm a little gun shy as well as nervous. I sometimes think- what am I doing to myself with this surgery??? I know very well that the answer is I'm saving my own life and I know it's the right thing to do. But those evil nerves are harassing me!

I totally know how you feel. We are in the same boat. I will let you know how things go as I am scheduled for the 28th. I find it comforting to talk to as many post-ops as I can. Listen to their experience. Talking helps! Hugs, Chrissy

Sorry to hear your so nervous about your surgery. I have to tell you that the hardest part was having to stay in the hospital for 2 days. I had Laporscopic and it was a piece of cake. The pain wasn't that bad at all and your walking the same day as surgery. I drove myself to my first post op appointment a week later. Do ask questions on here to try to set your minds at ease. Good Luck on your upcoming surgerys and your going to love the "Journey" your about to embark on. Be Well, Julio

Hi Jennifer It is about time to start your rebirth soon I am praying for you and hope your recovery will go smoothly like a sailboat! Kathy K

Hey Jen, You will do just fine sweetie, we have all been there and survived. I promise you the pain is not as bad as your thinking. Yes it is painful but you will get through it. Take it slow and don't get to nervous, be strong and you will do just fine. Your on your way to a fantastic journey, believe me!!! Good luck and god bless to you. Hugs Kim

My goodness Kim! I would not have recognized you in a store! Great new photo! Towanda

Jennifer I am scheduled for Dec 12 with Dr. Barba. I am having some insurance issues, so I am not sure if this date will fly. I am so feeling just like you. I go back and forth in my mind - risk verses benefit - then I spend time on these boards and relalize I am not alone. Every feeling or fear, joy and frustration I have had many before us have felt before. I will say many prayers for you to have the peace in your heart you need. Let me know how you are doing - since we have the same surgen, If I go on 12/12 as scheduled, I will let you know who I am doing. Peace and serenity to you Tina

Thanks to all for the encouragement and sharing of experiences. You guys are awesome (as usual). I am feeling better already about this!