Some pics of me and my blind date on Sat.

Richbehr
on 3/15/09 10:46 pm - North Haven, CT
RNY on 03/24/08 with
About 2 weeks ago a friend(Paul) wanted to fix me up with a friend of his, so one night while Tony was over his house he called me, and Tony and I chatted a bit and exchanged phone numbers. Tony and I continued to talk daily for the last 2 weeks. Well last night we met. Paul and his partner had us both over for dinner so we could finally meet. Tony is such a sweet caring guy. I was'nt disappointed. He was really interested and concerned in hearing about my various health/diet requirements. I told him about the nausea, and my 4 hours of dry heaves that goes along with it. He said he will be in the bathroom holding my hand while I puke!!!! And that he will not let me be alone when I am not feeling well. I think I'll keep him. After dinner we went to a diner for coffee.  We both felt there was something between us and we will take it slow. Will I/can I ever feel the same for him as I did for Alan? I don't know, but he is part of the healing process and I am fond of him and do care about him. Now for some info on Tony: He is 44(45 in May 6-same as my grandmother), he is 1/2 Polish and 1/2 Italian and he is an accountant with a masters degree and has his own condo with a cat.  He is a music fanatic with over a thousand cd's. He has'nt been in a relationship for 2 years and in that he was used.
This is Tony, aint he cute????
DSCI0594.jpg picture by Rich1960
Some shots of us together last night,
DSCI0597.jpg picture by Rich1960
I love this shot,
DSCI0598.jpg picture by Rich1960
Awwwww, I think he likes me,
DSCI0595.jpg picture by Rich1960

 
"Death borders upon our birth, and our cradle stands in the grave. Our birth is nothing but our death begun."

JustJoie
on 3/16/09 12:47 am
Awesome!!  I'm so glad you had a great date!  Things sound promising!  New Relationship Energy (NRE) is one of the best feelings/motivators in the whole world.  I wish you much luck and happiness!

Kind regards,

Joie

 
Life is Good...and it's only getting better!
    
tobys-mom
on 3/16/09 2:43 am - Bristol, CT
Glad to hear your date went well. Just go slow and enjoy all the fun.
Kathy
 
  
Kathy W.
on 3/20/09 4:37 pm - Enfield, CT
RNY on 01/15/08 with

Is that our Paul?

Hagatha reporting for duty so I can steal CD's.

He's a cutie but then I am partial to Italians.

Let me tell you hun, when you find the right one you will know. Mark and I met and knew right away. Ok, so we talked online for about a month before we met in person. Just enjoy being with him and don't worry about what might or might not happen.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

Paula Hep
on 4/6/09 11:54 pm - Windsor, CT
RNY on 09/28/05 with
I'm happy for you Rich...I didn't even know that you and Alan broke up..I'm so sorry..what happened?  The distance?

I'd say, go for it if it feels right, but, if you think it's a rebound relationship, take it slow, you don't want to be doubly hurt and don't want to hurt someone else, either.

Doesn Tony live closer to you?  I hope so!

Keep us posted...you look SO good and handsome!  Keep up the great work!

Be safe!

Paula



Paula
330+/230/200  (originally got down to 200, but gained 30 back) :-(
 
"Nothing tastes as good as thin feels....." (unknown)

 

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