Overwhelmed!!

I know I vented a bit yesterday..but its not getting any better here. My son missed his ride to school and I was not prepared to take him....so I let him take the car to school..which means my DH had to drive me to work when he got home from work this morning. Now-my son needs to bring my daughter here to pick me up and then take us to get her dance pictures taken. I was hoping to fit in a manicure..before my vacation...but that is not a reality. I need to get things in order before I go...dinner plan-laundry up to date-lists of where the kids need to be and when. I know this getaway will be worth it once I go... Its a girls weekend with seven people I met through adoption about 8 yrs ago..and we meet once a year. This year is a large cabin on a lake in Tenn... The weather reports rain/thunderstorms for the next four days...I need to make sure I do not get "cabin-fever" and start eating the wrong things...and to bring my exercise videos in case I cannot take walks. I know this all sounds so petty--with people on these boards having post op difficulties...I will get through this...and it will be worth it! I feel better already--just to vent it all! XO Joanie

Joanie, Venting always helps. You will be fine. Bring your videos, and lots of things to keep you busy. You should probably bring some WLS friendly snacks with you just in case. Take walks in the rain, bring rain gear and an umbrella for those non thunderstorm rainstorms! Have a good time, Pam

Hey Joanie, Its ok, we all have days like that too. Take alittle time by yourself, soak in a warm bubblebath and just relax for awhile. You have to take time for just you sometimes and the heck with everyone else. It will be ok and the day will get better, believe you me when I say I have alot of days like that too. I am here for you if you need to chat. Give me a call if you want someone to talk too. You take care of yourself and be good to yourself. Your a wonderful person so don't let the stress get to you, advice you had given me that I treasure. Take care sweetie and hang in there. Love ya Kim C.

HIJACK!! Great new picture Kim - keep up the good work! Nancy K

Joanie, I feel that way every day and I only have 1 child!! She competes in dance and I feel like I spend my life in the studio or running to week-end competitions. At least you are getting away! I am sure you are greatful for that even though we wonder if it is worth it (all the prep work before you go). Have a wonderful time - this to shall pass and you will soon be having a great time with the girls! Nancy K

Hi Joanie, Please don't ever think your difficulties are minor or petty. They are very real and very stressful as those of use who have kids know. Things will work out and you will have a great time in Tenn. with your friends and you will be able to regroup from the stress prior to leaving. Even if you do eat the wrong things it won't be the end of the world and you can get right back on track once you get home and are back in a more controlled enviroment. As far as walking, I 'm sure your friends will encourage you and help you. I am so glad you vented to us, your friends. Now a direct order! Have a great time and don't worry! You AND your family will be fine. Love, Sandy

Vent away Joanie. You have a lot going on right now and this one thing of car sharing doesn't seem to help I'm sure. Hope all works out in the end and you get all your ducks in a row and end up with nice weather in Tenn. Hugs, Maggie

Joanie: Vent away!!! We all need to from time to time. Just think you will be on vacation in no time. Have a great time in TN. Just think of all you have acomplished!!! That should put a big smile on your face. Chryssie

Hi Joanie! OK, Take a deep Breath! Venting is one of the best things! Maybe since everything has went wrong the past day or 2 , God will make the weather good for you on your vacation! Just think though, whether it rains ro not, you will be getting away, and it will be good for you! Just stay focused on eating the right things, but even if you treat yourself (afterall you will be on a getaway) don't beat yourself up, just take a longer walk or do something to burn the extra calories, and when you get back home get back into your routine! I wish i could jump in your suitcase with you, to have some peace and quiet before the baby comes! Only 6 more weeks! Short pregnancy! Maybe I will see you next week when I come in for my appointment on Thursday! Have a great getaway! I will be thinking of you and praying that you have good weather and a great time! Take care! MaryJo

Thanks to all of you for your kind words. I still have not done any exercise yet today...but I am all packed and ready to go. I may get in a One Mile WATPs...but if I don't I promise to make sure I do 30 min of exercise over the next four days! I did get my manicure in...by the way..and I am mostly all packed..and ready to go! Mary Jo-I do work some Thursdays but not many...that particular Thursday May 5th..is my bday! Six weeks to go!! Amazing! How are you feeling? How are you two little boys at home? Does this new little guy have a name yet? I will miss you all! Kathy will be sure to keep up the log...and I will be back on Monday...needing a vacation from my vacation! Love you all..thanks again Joanie