Hospital Stay at Middlesex
Oh Tammy, hugs to you. I am so sorry to hear that you have to deal with this right before surgery. I would tell everyone at the hospital possible that they are not to give him information.
I'm so glad to see you're standing tall and fighting back. Keep that attitude, it will get you far.
If at all possible, try and make sure that a friend or family member is with you at all times so you won't have to deal with it alone if he does make an appearance. Don't even make Phyllis and I have to come up there to open a can of whoop a** all over him.
Enjoy your weekend with your family and try to picture your ex getting fitted with cement shoes for swimming with the fishes.
Hugs,
Maggie
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PS again...not to make it worse, but I have to tell you that I have done a lot of work out of Middlesex in the ED doing crisis work/evals and there have been times I needed to see someone on N7 and oncei n awhile on the intensive care floor...I was able to move around there pretty freely.
On a brighter note...the security guards at Middlesex do NOT PLAY...so if proper folks are in the know... you could come through A OK!
Keep the Faith!
Sher'
HI TAMMY I AM SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS, I WOULD ADVISE WHO EVER TAKES YOU TO THE HOSPITAL THAT MORNING TO GIVE SECURITY A HEADS UP ON WHATS GOING ON. YOU SHOULDNT BE GOING THROUGH THIS RIGHT NOW,THIS SHOULD BE A HAPPY TIME FOR YOU. IF YOU NEED SUPPORT I WILL STAND BY YOUR ROOM GOOD LUCK WITH SURGERY KEEP ME POSTED.LINDA
Hey Tammy, I know some people...LOL.
I've been doing kickboxing for a while not (full contact, not just cardio) and I can pack amean punch. I'll stand guard...just dont make me drink any protein shakes, ok?
Seriously, sorry you have to deal with this. Don't worry about what you have NO control over. If he shows up ring the emergency bell, and if you can make sure the nurses are aware of the situation before hand.
You are such a wonderful woman, how did you get messed up with this creep??
See you Sunday!
-Deb