My Ex

I CANNOT BELIEVE IT! I would have been in that front seat driving over his a@@! That is terrible. And I am sorry that you have to even deal with it. Sounds like you have a great hubby now!!! You have worked so hard to get to this point in your journey. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel like its the wrong decision. HE IS NOT WORTH IT. But sounds like you already know it! Keep your spirits up, only 6 more days to the big day! Love, Phyllis

Tammy, I am so sorry you had to endure such a horible verbal attack. As tempting as I'm sure it was, you did good choosing to cry rather than running him over. You don't want to miss your surgery date by being in jail . Seriously, I am so glad you are not with that jerk anymore. DO NOT let his cruel insecure comments upset you! YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY. He obviously is not and just wants to drag you down any way possible to make himself feel better! You are lucky you have such great kids and a husband that loves you and supports you. Although you cannot be rid of your ex completely.... Focus on you and your family in the coming day, don't waste anymore energy on him. Hugs, Carmen

Tammy, I am so sorry to hear what happened. Do not let the moron bring you down. I can so relate to you. I used to date this guy and I was stupid enough to give him all my money but when I did not give him any he then chose to get verbally abusive. I eventually put a stop to it but it taught me a lesson: no one can love you better than you can. Forgot what he said and just use it to as the young people say "forget about the haters" lol see you later today at the class. LaToya

Tammy,I agree with everything everyone said. My ex was an idiot too. I will poke a pin in the ex hubby voodoo doll just for him! Do you have any special spot I should do?? hehehe Good luck & god bless, pam

Tammy.. Hugging you tight. I am sorry you had to endure such a low life tirad from somone who is lower than pond scum. Tammy.. he is not worth one drop of a tear although I know I would have cried as well. He showed everyone there what kind of asshole he is.. good thing is an EX. My husband just told me to tell you.. having the surgery..getting thin and living a long long time is the best revenge you could hand him. You are in my prayers..and my thoughts.. if I could kick his ass for you..I would but I think I would have to stand in a very long line. hugs Pattie

Hi, Tammy! I'm so so sorry that your ex put you through that and I hope that the girls weren't able to hear him. You are so much better off without him. It's too bad that you have to continue contact with him because of the kids. If he does something like this again, definitely call security as soon as he shows up. Keep your chin up and let your emotions out by crying (better choice than homicide ) and venting to us. We'll always be here for you. What a difference between him and your current hubby! And like someone else posted, living well (and looking fantastic -- as I'm sure you will) is the best revenge. Hugs, Debby

Well Darling, all I can say is ex's are ex's for a reason. See, you've already lost 200 pounds..of jerkmeat! You have a great hubby and kids who love you...and then there is US...the CT Message Board who think the world of you. Enjoy this time, don't let old news bring you down. -Deb

As another X wife of this guy I can honestly say we are both lucky women to have realized that he does not have the capacity to even behave like a normal human being with any sort of capcity to love! Tammy you're the best and like I told you today, don't let him get you down! He's not worth it, and both of us have better lives now and are happier and getting healthier! Goodbye to the old Chapters in our lives and hello to the new! And because of your courage, I am going through this process too! Thanks for all the support you have given me and let's both move ahead in our new lives. love, Elle (Erica)

Erica - Thank you so much for posting this. It really meant a lot to me. ;) And for anyone who is reading this, we actually DO have the same ex husband. LOL. That's how we became such good friends. I'm so fortunate to have met you all thru this site - the support you have all shown me has been overwhelming. I hope to be able to repay this support to others. Love you ALL!!! Tammy