you are all angels!
Thank you all so much for your kind words and emails. This was my first posting, and I am sitting here in my office with tears in my eyes for your generosity. I am nervous but very excited, and now relieved to know that you are all a click away. Your responses made it even more imperative that my husband and I get a computer at home!
A couple of direct responses about Dr. Barba: While he's not stuck on a BMI of 50, I don't think there's too much wiggle room. I lost 21.5 to get closer to the 50, and am continuing to try to lose another 10 lbs before the Big Day. Also, I had my surgery date four days after my 1-on-1 meeting with him (which, as you know, doesn't come until everything is done).
have a great day!
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Hi Heather, I'm so glad you found us on the board. It was the best thing that ever happened for me also. I don't know what I would have done without the Angels here. What are you doing for your diet now? I had great luck with The South Beach Diet pre-surgery. Keep up the good work. Your surgery date will be here before you know it.
~Julie~
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