Update - Help Needed
I respectfully disagree with you. This forum is for support in all aspects of WLS. WLS can have profound effects on relationships. The divorce rate after WLS is high. If we can not turn to the very people who understand our struggles the best then who? While I feel counseling seems like a necessary thing for this couple sometimes you just need the ear of a friend. We are all here to support eachother granted the advise we get may not always be what we want to hear. I would hope that whatever issue I have no matter how loosely related to WLS I could come here and get the needed support from my brothers and sisters in WLS.
Respectfully,
Chryssie
7/26/04
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The kids should be a top priority. They are the only ones that never asked to be here. As soon as they were born they should be the center of attention and no one else. If they are the ones being neglected then people need to rethink what they are doing. As for spouses that I really don't care about. That's between the two of you. Just remember what you do with or for your kids now will be what shapes them into who they will be.
For the rest of everyone just remember there is always 3 sides to a story, her's, his, and what is actually going on. Just remember it is ok to give support bu****ch what advice you give it just might come back to bite you in the end.
Heidi